Do that and say "bye bye" to LTRs.

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Don't go overboard with it, don't make every photo a photo with chick on your arm. Also yea try to ditch the the long term relationship mindset, you're main object is a hookup,not a girlfriend. Eventually you can move it from a hookup to a full on relationship. Don't go looking for a girlfriend in girls, you end up looking needy, clingy and wierd.

ok yeah i havent read alot of books about pick up i have read one e book called magic bullets and ive pretty much watched every video out there along with the whole pick up artist vh1 series and keys to the vip (which is hard coz i live in england) and i cant order any books to my house and i cant get them from my libray because ill look like a douche and finnialy i dont live where i can walk to a libray and get a book so sooory.

yeah i said before this im not very good at pickup so im not gonna go on about it (if u have got any free ebooks or anything tell me where i can get them?). yeah i think it was more teasing than negging tbh but oh well, yeah i think ill just stay "friends" with her and build up a shit load of kino and sexuall tension (and obviously run normal game) then when i get her alone things should kick off rite? well with this other girl.. i kindof made a bet with a friend that i could get her in two weeks.. maybe a step backwards but itll give me motivation to achelly approach and run game on her.

um not much to say about the post today i notice theres alot of conflicting views wether or not i can get this first girl, i think itll just take some time.

if anyone could describe the diffrence beetween negging and teasing i would appreciate it... or any other tips on pick up... im not that bad at it i mean im pretty good for my age i just really havent practised it.

thanks for the posts guys keep em coming.

a special thanks to:
keahn_s
nogame
Stetson

some good points there.

I would suggest you to get rid of that belief Alpha male doesn't care about what others think of him.

You could always download the books via torrent. They are in .pdf form so you will need Adobe acrobat reader.


You can get the girl.

I'm gonna go out in the town right now so I don't have time to explain negging and teasing. I will explain some of it later when I come back.

"Tease her like she would be your little sister".
You neg her everytime she does something you don't like.

Those are two things that separates them.

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[quote="*olie*"]I feel like shit SPAM god knows why but i have this problem where i get too obsessed with 1 girl and pinning my hopes on her, luckily i dont think most girls find out that im like that but the ones that do are repelled instantly anyway.. to my story hope you enjoy it

i met this girl outside of highschool a couple of times near where my mate lives at first i was a little shy but then i soon ajusted and i was bieng cocky funy whatever u wana call now i went to this carnival and out of the 6 people there i was the life of the party and as u can guess she was there, i had about 5 shots and she had about a sip of campari we were both wernet out of our heads surely? so then things started to kick off she laughed at all of my jokes told me i was cute etc.. lots of hugs hand holding regripping my hand tighter etc.. kiss on the cheek(yeah really lame i know).. then something bad happened i dident get past that she had to go home!! this shudent have been a problem i should have been able to just continue the next day in school talking to her and eventually meeting up and getting with her, but then something worse happened i found out she had a boyfriend, then something even worse hapened my oneitus kicked in then something even worse happened she came online told me she just wanted to stay friends i asked if she wasent with her bf would she want to be with me? i dunno :S i really dont have a clue. her exact words i think. now ive got this oneitus that is keeping me up at nights and messing me up during the day(especially when i see her sitting on her bf lap, shes taller than him wtf? they have been going out 2 weeks ). lovely.

some questions for you geezers reading out there since im a pretty shit pick up artist:
1. do i still have a chance? (yeah this is a stupid question)
2. is there much point in trying to be friends we wernet really friendly at school in the first place just a couple of hellos and stuff
3. how do i get rid of oneitus?
4.i feel like shooting myself is this the solution? lol no that one was a joke but i do seriously feel like crap

my game plan so far:
get a diffrent girlfriend (this ones going to be difficult damn highschool)
talk to her in school kindof friendly(lots of kino) but kick it up a bit when her boyfriends not there.
blank spot please fill in
blank spot please fill in
blank spot please fill in
sleep with her.. lol(i do want a relationship but it depends what shes like when im with her, if theres much point in trying for her anymore)

ok gotta go school ill tell you how it goes guys.

any advice would be greatly apprieciated[lovely stry man. oh i just joined this forum lyk 4 days a go. so am kinda fresh. anyway to your question: I was/am in exactly similar situation. there was this gurl, she was 6/7 I duno she werent even a 9 or a 10 but smhow i had a crush on her and worst of all she was my friend. so I know how you feel. dude if I was you I wld just move on. I know easier said thatn done, but once she sed "rather be friends (this hounts me to day I die lol) there is no chance specialy since you said your not really that good with the Pick ups. there is a lot more fish in the sea man. Go fishing. ]

[quote="D_Haile03"][quote="*olie*"]I feel like shit SPAM god knows why but i have this problem where i get too obsessed with 1 girl and pinning my hopes on her, luckily i dont think most girls find out that im like that but the ones that do are repelled instantly anyway.. to my story hope you enjoy it

i met this girl outside of highschool a couple of times near where my mate lives at first i was a little shy but then i soon ajusted and i was bieng cocky funy whatever u wana call now i went to this carnival and out of the 6 people there i was the life of the party and as u can guess she was there, i had about 5 shots and she had about a sip of campari we were both wernet out of our heads surely? so then things started to kick off she laughed at all of my jokes told me i was cute etc.. lots of hugs hand holding regripping my hand tighter etc.. kiss on the cheek(yeah really lame i know).. then something bad happened i dident get past that she had to go home!! this shudent have been a problem i should have been able to just continue the next day in school talking to her and eventually meeting up and getting with her, but then something worse happened i found out she had a boyfriend, then something even worse hapened my oneitus kicked in then something even worse happened she came online told me she just wanted to stay friends i asked if she wasent with her bf would she want to be with me? i dunno :S i really dont have a clue. her exact words i think. now ive got this oneitus that is keeping me up at nights and messing me up during the day(especially when i see her sitting on her bf lap, shes taller than him wtf? they have been going out 2 weeks ). lovely.

some questions for you geezers reading out there since im a pretty shit pick up artist:
1. do i still have a chance? (yeah this is a stupid question)
2. is there much point in trying to be friends we wernet really friendly at school in the first place just a couple of hellos and stuff
3. how do i get rid of oneitus?
4.i feel like shooting myself is this the solution? lol no that one was a joke but i do seriously feel like crap

my game plan so far:
get a diffrent girlfriend (this ones going to be difficult damn highschool)
talk to her in school kindof friendly(lots of kino) but kick it up a bit when her boyfriends not there.
blank spot please fill in
blank spot please fill in
blank spot please fill in
sleep with her.. lol(i do want a relationship but it depends what shes like when im with her, if theres much point in trying for her anymore)

ok gotta go school ill tell you how it goes guys.

any advice would be greatly apprieciated[lovely stry man. oh i just joined this forum lyk 4 days a go. so am kinda fresh. anyway to your question: I was/am in exactly similar situation. there was this gurl, she was 6/7 I duno she werent even a 9 or a 10 but smhow i had a crush on her and worst of all she was my friend. so I know how you feel. dude if I was you I wld just move on. I know easier said thatn done, but once she sed "rather be friends (this hounts me to day I die lol) there is no chance specialy since you said your not really that good with the Pick ups. there is a lot more fish in the sea man. Go fishing. ][by the way I forgot to say I was in secondary school too. readin it i felt it sounded a little out of age. lol]