Man i totally disagree. Be more feminine? you got to be kidding.
no.
The reason she dug you is not because of your feminine side but the side which demonstrated that you dont give a shit about other peoples opinions. You infact demonstrated a manly side from all that believe it or not, and that being courage which womman are attracted to.
As far as dressing up with chick clothes, no that’s peacocking and i believe you should either apply for a tribe or form one of your own like i do. Id have raver elements like wear beeds and shit of colors, cancer bands to show that i support a good cause which i do, and very much respect. Id dress classy because that’s who i am, leather shoes to demonstrate that im a man and have gone beyond sneakers. So on so forth.
That’s how i see it, the topic is open for debate.
To put forward one more thing, yeah i was seeing a HB 9 model blond hair, amazing swis girl. She told me she liked feminine men and that guys are more feminine then girls. But thats her female standpoint. Shes not attracted to that, its simply her wording of what shes after in a man. Ie more open, suggestive, talkative, outgoing. She has no other way to put it as she sees men as crude controlling creatures and girls as submissive open creatures. Shes not attracted to a guy that acts gay and dresses in dresses. Maybe once but not as a everyday thing. Trust me
DONT be fooled by her interpretation of things. Have you heard the saying, "a girl doesn’t know what she wants?" its true.
All in all you have the cube to run and see what shes really after. Maybe she is after a guy whos on the other side.. never know till you try!
It makes no sence to her either, girls are stupid. Its like me as a guy saying I want a beefcake womman whos twice my size and is manly with a purple dildo.
dude if i say that, there has to be something wrong with me, or im expressing a desire for certain qualities.
Same when a chick says "i want a femanine guy".
A girl wants someone to protect her at night, to be calm but always very alert, to be able to take care off her so on. Its the way of things.