What areas of pickup or seduction do you struggle With?

The only rel problem i think i have is approching but with practice i think thatll go away

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Gogo

Approaching is usually the hardest part mainly because it deals with how confident you are. As gogo said, practice and it'll become more natural. It's all about opening a set with confidence and being comfortable with it while also making them feel comfortable with it (but not all the time, depending on what you're gaming). Remember... just be comfortable, confident and also get their friends approval first because there's nothing worse than a cock blocker.

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I actually said that my sticking point was maintaining a conversation. It's just how I was brought up.

I have only two gears when I'm in a social situation. I am either extremely interested and excited or I am very quiet. The solution I'm working on is pretty simple and is directly from the StyleLife challenge. I'm working on anchoring "being interesting" and "energetic" on myself. It may sound ridiculous, but whenever I activate my anchors, I actually feel better.

go here to get an excercise that will help you (comes with StyleLife challenge):

http://rapidshare.de/files/24776382/min ... l.mp3.html

There are popups and other crap on it but choose the "free" option and follow instructions.

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"This is your reality. It is what you make it"

i ususally have a prob with starting a convo, aka approach. but, if ive had a beer or osmehting, its no prob. just go do what u want and be glad u did it.

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me have trouble with kino or escalating i think

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"If you aim for the moon and miss, at least you will be among the stars."- found it here and it inspired me....

i recon its the whole maintain thing because that involves making your own shit up on the spot and its almost like a game because your trying to seduce her AND keep the convo. Both are easy but when you try them both together i find that hard

~Frogga

If this counts, Inner game. The mind will always be the greatest opponent, it really has kept me from getting higher up in pick up stuff.

im in the club scene, and iv gone through all of the different energy ways to approach(a high energy, while dancing, smooth energy)
but it seems that i cant get through 5 words and when i see their attention blur away to some shiny object.
and boom value down and blown out

????HOW????