I learned from my last time out in the field (at a party) that its easy to forget lots of key routines/ openers/ negs etc...so im wondering if someone can help me put together a proper cheat sheet for my next time out in the field...cuz Id like to have some material with me just in case, however I dont want to be walking around with a bunch of big paragraphs in my back pocket

i think this has been posted, but putting little cheats in your cell phone under your txt drafts, so when u reloading with openers, DHVs or negs it just looks like your txting somebody. I wouldn't look at it too often because then you just look bored without any friends.

much love

sultan

Im in the process of making my own personal cheat sheet, im using a 3x5 note card and im craming as much as i can on it(things that are relevant to me)

heres what i got on mine

the 6 charectoristics of Alpha Male

1 smile
2 Confident
3 Well Groomed
4 Sense of Humor
5 Connects with people
6 is seen as the social center of a room

the M3 model

a few personal notes to myself saying*

* that a3 must be done in isolation
*dont follow = dlv
*cant split a two set
*seeking rapport = dlv
*lean back, dont lean in
* stand out from the rest

a reminder that men only live on average for about 28,251 days

most of this stuff i learned from MM but credits to BadBoy and David DeAngelo too on the other stuff

im gonna puts some negs on it and some reminders of some of my dhv stories also.

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Yea, that was me that said put it in your cell. I keep a seperate file for each thing, im still really new to this so i dont have the best orginization yet but here is how i do it:

Files:
PUA-Openers (Openers for bars)
PUA-Situational Openers (Openers to use places like mall, gym..)
PUA-Convo (General conversation topics to keep them going)
PUA-PATTERNS (Patterns and Games like ESP, Palm-spin, etc)

Think of it like writing notes when giving a speech

you dont write the whole thing on there


for example, if i was planning on trying styles 5 lies game, i wouldnt write the whole instructions, Id have it memorized, so if I couldnt recall a rotuine i was using that night i look at the sheet and bam!

"5 lies"

thats it

You shouldnt need to write down to remind yourself to smile, thats dumb, if you're new, you focus more on your body language than anything else. Atleast I did, It was my lines and routines Id forget.

when I sarge, I go out to perfect CERTAIN routines and combos I dont use my whole array in one trip.

so my sheet is like so
Openers:
1
2
3
4
5
Routines:
1
2
3
4
5
Closers
1
2
3
4
5

fits nicely on an index card when made horizontal.

also note I dont write my negs, the best negs are situational, but you can add them in a row too i suppose.

SO TO SUMMARIZE

Keywords that trigger your memory, all you need. That is as long as you practice and know your routines by heart, which you should.

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One thing about this . . . don't say it's stupid to remind yourself to smile, because a lot of guys DON'T automatically smile.

Thanks, very helpful!

When I started I sat down with a A3 size pad and took a page for each section

A1, A2, and so on...

Then brainstorm everything you need to do in that section... Ie in A1... To open and reach the social hook point. So thats the objective and then map out 3 or 4 ways of getting there which is where you write word for word your openers/routines/props which will get you to your objective.

Then sit and tear apart (in metaphorical terms) everything you've put and condense it down, keeping the important bits... Learn and remember it, and then practice over and over so that you can deliver it as if it just popped into your head and its not scripted. Then your cheat sheet will just be a few bullet points or just a few titles.

~Also check my post that I put up about 10mins ago on the other cheat sheet post... Stick your cheat sheets onto draft messages on your mobile!

Pull it out mid set (your phone that is) - neg them by showing you care more about the "sms you just received" whilst you check what material you also want to run but forgot about.

I've set up a folder in my inbox that just has PUA material in it. Messages are labelled A1,A2,A3 etc followed by Magic, Closes, Restaurants, Hotels, clubs (also containing closing times and music types) and Wings (numbers of regualr sargers that i might need to call for assistance who are in the same area of clubs). Whenever I lose my way or am at the part where I need to bounce I check my club list or appropiate folder to move things on... Its worked for me so far.

hope that helps someone

When I started I sat down with a A3 size pad and took a page for each section

A1, A2, and so on...

Then brainstorm everything you need to do in that section... Ie in A1... To open and reach the social hook point. So thats the objective and then map out 3 or 4 ways of getting there which is where you write word for word your openers/routines/props which will get you to your objective.

Then sit and tear apart (in metaphorical terms) everything you've put and condense it down, keeping the important bits... Learn and remember it, and then practice over and over so that you can deliver it as if it just popped into your head and its not scripted. Then your cheat sheet will just be a few bullet points or just a few titles.

~Also check my post that I put up about 10mins ago on the other cheat sheet post... Stick your cheat sheets onto draft messages on your mobile!

Pull it out mid set (your phone that is) - neg them by showing you care more about the "sms you just received" whilst you check what material you also want to run but forgot about.

I've set up a folder in my inbox that just has PUA material in it. Messages are labelled A1,A2,A3 etc followed by Magic, Closes, Restaurants, Hotels, clubs (also containing closing times and music types) and Wings (numbers of regualr sargers that i might need to call for assistance who are in the same area of clubs). Whenever I lose my way or am at the part where I need to bounce I check my club list or appropiate folder to move things on... Its worked for me so far.

hope that helps someone

this is what mystery said about preperation "Sure. First, find 3 openers and memorize them. Write down a list of openers (just the headings of each opener to remind you). Next, write down some routines (the question game, the music game, the photo routine, the bear in the woods story, etc - all on dejanews) and then also memorize the kiss close and the # close. Memorize 3 NEGs too and you are good to go. With the material in your mind, you are prepared to work it in the field until you have the timing of the material down (again, just like a comedian.)"

helps me out hope it does to you