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Now for some politically incorrect and assholish... but true advice

If you want a girl that will cling to you forever, start looking for the girls with major daddy issues.


As for saving a relationship, I generally won't fight with a girl about much of anything... I let them know that I'm essentially above the small shit and most of it is small shit... I also let them know that if they happen to hit one of the spots I will argue about... theres no arguing, theres only clear instructions coming from me to them on how they are to resolve the situation.

The Downside to this part of the way I operate is it's kind of an all or nothing approach, we never argue or have issues unless it's something I'm willing to walk away over... this seems to lead women to test me since most guys say that but don't have the balls to mean it... and as a consequence I have alot of X girl friends who want me back and can't have me.

This thread is interesting though... I've never had a girl yell at me like you've described... how do you guys take that? God I'd squash her frame like a bug if a girl ever disrespected me like that... I'd never raise my voice to her, thats disrespectful to raise it back at me.


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Patience, tolerance and telling yourself that somebody she'll get the picture. Eventually I just started blowing up on her everytime she did it and was scared to piss me off. Things were great for me. Then she turned platonic and into a bitch and I started taking. I realized what I chode I was and I figured I have plenty of girls waiting for me that I gamed so I left.

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Man, you really had problems... This must be the worst case of One-itis I have ever heard of!


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it wasn't really one-itis. i wasn't obsessed over her, it was the idea of a future with someone. so i was hopeful and patient. i prepared for the end though by coming into the community 8 months ago. she is not the type of girl i would ever settle for.

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Thought your one-itis was someone you couldn't get, and linger on that one person for a long time without getting success and in the end getting befriended...?


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If you want a girl that will cling to you forever, start looking for the girls with major daddy issues.
oh my god i cannot stop laughing :lol: :lol: :lol:

ahhhhahahahahahaha

lmao

that's so fucking true :lol:

damn im rofling in my pants


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I creamed my pants too when I read that. It's pretty true, all my stage 5 clinger gf's that were overly obsessed with me had either a dead father, a long lost father, or a fucked up father.

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Man all this stuff sounds so depressing yet rejuvenating.
I was in a 3 year relationship with a girl that I thought was too good for me the whole time throughout. I was such an AFC, she walked all over me, broke up with me plenty of times, then would comeback.

We lost our virginity together, then while we were on a break, we kept talking and such, and she fucked this guy I hated the night after I fucked her, and she didn't tell me for months. But I still took her back, then we went on another break, and she had sex with some other dude, and I took her back again but under strict circumstances that she could not comply with, so I told that bitch off and changed my number, and haven't heard from or talked to the bitch since. I was so depressed, I got in to drugs wanted to die, and stayed in my house for weeks, and didn't eat. Then I stayed with my brother in Utah for a while, and when I came back I was clean. Except I drink and smoke occasional pot. But before I would do things to forget, now I drink to have fun with friends, not to forget.

She really fucked up my confidence and everything to go along with it. Then I heard about PUA, and decided this is where I need to be. Its a plan and a pact to never let events like these happen to me again, because I can read a girl inside and out, and play her little games. I don't care how many girls I sleep with, just as long as I dont get fucked over again




Whollly shit!! Damn bro that sux!! I had something like that happen to me in high school and it sux. It was a year and a half relationship that ended something like 2 and a half years ago I believe, I havn't had a girlfriend since. I dont get it, I actually reallly want one but cant seem to get one! Its not for lack of trying im 19 and count is up to 54..

But damn after reading your post I cant lie I dont really want a girl anymore. All it is is vulnerability that none of us need. Sorry to hear your story big guy! :cry:

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