| This is more of a question derived from observation, rather than absolute advice...
I know a lot of PUA terminology gets lost in translation, and because I can't say I've researched every method thoroughly (a.k.a. paid $ to learn), I apologize in advance if my inquiries are redundant.
My definition of a neg is a bit broader than most ppl I've seen, but I'm not so much concerned with backhanded insults, as much as the more general technique of throwing a female off her imaginary pedestal, and onto attainable ground...so this topic is more concerned with any action taken that will reflect my indifferance to what a female would consider her common charm, which in turn will progressively intrique, attract...well, you get the point.
Simply put, I was wondering if there is a definitive style to negging that should be used repetitively, and has controlled results...or should a variety of different styles be used depending upon the social scenario and the female? Perhaps theres even a time no form of neg is needed at all?
You could non-chalantly acknowledge what a female would consider to be a flaw of hers (which seems the most popular). Personally, I prefer a more humorous approach, exploiting the flaw for all it's comedic elements, and having a good laugh afterwards (which might borderline on c&f and not really be considered a neg). I've also seen the isolation effect, where a man simply does not acknowledge a female, until she can no longer stand it and begins to make-out with him (true story...sounds more like group theory though, minus paying the girl any attention at all). Do it with a smile? Be dead serious? Give her the attention, or her friends?
There are more techniques I've seen to basically show a women your indifference to her, but, are there certain methods to be used on different personalites of women, or do you think your personality determines which technique would be more efficient for you? (but then again...we all know that personality can be reconstructed) Or yet another option, do all of these techniques need to be utilized, just at different states of interaction with the female (and what would you say they are?)
Or perhaps I misunderstand the full potential of a neg. All my friends point out negs I'm constantly delivering, which is flattering, but at the same time makes me wonder whether or not I've learned to unconciously perform this technique to it's maximum efficiency, or if I might be habitually misusing negs without knowing it.
...Some personal insight, opinions, and criticism would definately be appreciated. _________________ "You feel compelled to contribute to the pathetic heartbreaking predictability of it all, by all means..." -Roger Dodger-
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