Need advice in isolating
I have a canned opener I am comfortable with, I plan on following the mystery method focusing on obstacles, with a couple of canned funny stories if needed to carry the conversation, all the while pretty much ignoring the target. Then I plan on subtle neging her with "is she always this quite" or being sarcastic and calling her a "party animal" or variations on how boring she is hopefully to illicit a response for her to jump in to try to impress me. If she injects into the conversation from the start I take that as an IOI and neg how she interrupts.
From there I am looking for a good transition to get her away from the group and any suggestions would be welcome.
A couple of scenarios I was thinking of.....
1. Continuing in the neging theme of how she is boring.... tell her she needs to drink or something to loosen up and I will even buy her a drink but she has to come order it (assuming she isn't at the bar). It gets her removed but also buying drinks shows weakness IMO which I would like to avoid.
2. At a club continuing to neg the boring theme. Say something like I'm going to have to find someone to dance with you. Hopefully she will say will come on and dance (trying to prove herself) but I am mostly go to bars not dance clubs.
I've seen these....
Quote:
"Hey guys, I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec, we'll be right there on the couch."
" Let me show you a magic trick, lets go there."
"Let's grab a drink." (It doesn't matter if you go to get a drink or not)
"Let me introduce you to my friend"
"Okay here is a game: Slowly stand up, Give me your hand , Now come with me for a sec."
"Let's dance."
"Start making a routine (palm reading , the cube) and say , lets sit down over there."
"I'm getting tired lets sit down"
any more suggestions or slick ways to work it in.
Thanks
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