Hi all, this is my first post> I consider myself sort of a fair PUA - I've studied The Game, Mystery, and got a few of Ross Jeffries products. All helpful.

My short story is this: After a 5 year marriage, I asked for a Divorce. I had a good marriage, and a good wife, but I simply wasn't happy. I mean, we want Great - not good. Good is the enemy of great.

So, there I was, 36 years old, and about to re-enter the game. Broke cuz of the divorce, moving into a small apartment, a bit down on myself.

The PUA community and body of work to my rescue.

I started chatting it up with women everywhere. I put a profile on match. and before I knew it - I was getting my confidence.

As soon as I moved out, I started practicing my game.

At an airport bar, I chatted up a nurse who missed her flight. she was about a 6.5 - did some word play, some boyfriend destroyers, and walked her to her room - no f-close, but got a BJ and tit-f.

Then at a seminar - had a good weekend tryst with 7 -

21 days after I moved out - I reluctantly went to a Halloween party... I went as a flashy cowboy - and saw a cute "business woman" with a riding crop. We started talking - and it turns out we went to the same school overseas.

She had on a short skirt that showed off her strong legs, and I told her she looked like she could crack nuts with those legs..." I bet you have a strong grip too" I said - challenging her to shake my hand. She did have a strong grip - so we talked about fitness, and I escalated kino to feel her quads.

I suggested I give her a tour of the museum where the party was - and we started making out. So I kiss closed her before the number close. Turns out she's a 46 and smokin'.

Couple days later, we had some margaritas - she had her kids home so I took her home. More kissing.

THen she calls me a few days later - she needs some help lifting something heavy - I go over, do the lift, and she invites me in for some lemonade. I'm not kidding.

We ended up f-closing about a half-hour after I showed up - total time from meeting to f-close- about 5 hours. Not bad for an APUA.

Then I went wild.

My game exploded.

Met a 24 Year old girl on a winetasting tour - had some conversations - nothing really sexual, I guess I was showing mild dis-interest. After the tasting, a bunch of us went to dinner. We were a little drunk - she wanted to see how I make money on-line so I invited her back to my place cuz it was close - and i could show her some stuff on my computer.

We had fun all night, and a couple times a week for a good 5-6 weeks after that.

Then there was the Ecuadorian hottie (an , and more recently

- a 42 y/o divorcee Milf (an 8.5) with fake 38 DD's and legs that don't quit. She deepthroats, likes anal, and is a complete vixen. On the first date, she sucked me in a public bathroom, and after dinner, we went back to her place and didn't sleep much.

Just had my first "SPAM video sex" and she broke out some toys to give me a show while I was traveling. It sure beat dropping 16.95 on the adult movie on-demand.

Anyway, it was a total PITA juggling 4 women (i've been with 7 since October) - so I've dropped down to the two milfs.

I have a couple observations for you guys who might be shy gaming older gals:

1) If they have shared custody of the kids, this can be a good thing. The times they have custody allows you to juggle other women with fewer questions.

2) Older women are greatful to have a younger stud. They've typically been hurt, and really just want to feel beautiful & sexy. I'm not saying they're damaged - but if they were married to some jerk for some time and he didn't make her feel good- it's easier for you to satisfy that urge in them.

3) Older women have fewer sexual hang ups - they know what they want, and they aren't shy to go for it. They're also more into experimenting - and re-discovering & experiencing their sexuality

I'll share some more observations - such as how I've used anchors to get them wet with a few words.

Thanks all for the entertaining and educational posts; keep it up.

And let's get a conversation going about MILF game...

ReBachelor

p.s. The 46 yo took me to vegas, and there I was in the lounge and this attractive lesbian starts hitting on me -and introduces me to her girlfriend. I'm seeing the 3some... then 46 shows up, and all could tell the lezzies were disappointed... maybe another time.

Welcome to the forums! My buddy is all about the milfs. Hes 26 and loves to date women 35+. Let me reprashe that. He likes to fuck women 35+. They want less of a commitent and are willing to do about anything to get some dick. I perfer younger but i also have to deal with a ton more hangups.

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Welcome to the forum ReBachelor.

ReBatch, I like it!This is what the games all about, haha.Hey since your a divorsee, I'd suggest going onto the BulletproofPimp blogspot, just type it into a google search and read some of the posts, you'll love it!Keep up ur good work playa

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I got respect for that..I had the worst luck with a milf the other night..I'm 22 and enter a bar solo because I see this hot 38-45(didn't ask age) lady with blonde hair and fucking gorgeous legs..I use an opener on her and we instantly start talking for a while an i find out shes visiting from nyc and not san diego..We eventually get touchy feely and kiss on the cheek a bit until I ask her if I can kiss her on the lips (yeah I know i shouldn't have asked, I should have just done it) anyways she tells me she'd like to save that for another time but I should text her tomorrow..I text her later that afternoon and she asks me what I'm doing that evening, I respond, and then I never hear back from her..

Text her again the next night to see if she'd like to get some drinks later on..Nothing..Frustrating Cause I've wanted to bang a milf for soo damn long but such is life..Just weird how you can have such good rapport with someone and feel like somethings gonna happen and then they sketch out on you..But anyways I'm not given up, and soon I'll get my self a milf

Nice post man! I've really been wanting to get down on a MILF myself, but I my mind dosen't let me get turned on by someone who is my mothers age. But I guess that is becuase i am 20...

To Sandy86: I would guess that she was married and just wanted to flirt. "Lets save the kiss for an other night" Will keep you flirting and intressed and she can fly home the next day to her husband in NYC knowing nothing happened.

/Chris T

Yeah seriously. This is kind of inspiring....i got a job at a gas station and i've talked to a FEW girls that come and have number closed, but i always bitched how from 7am-2pm all i see are fucking OLDER women and none MY age(20) or so. I did game one MILF though....unfortunately she had a husband and she was pregnant(after she pointed to her stomach, i don't how i missed that) and then her husband came 20 min later trying to bitch me out for hitting on his wife/wanting her phone number.

How forward can you be? I'm some cases i think a older woman would make conversation A LOT easier, as they have more things to say and are more mature. Also...what's a good way to find out if she's married or not? Just simply say something like....."I think you have a great personality, but last week i almost got beat up by some plumber for hitting his wife so i gotta ask, are you married?"

Would that work u think? Also....i know for younger girls PERSONALITY/characteristic compliments are better...but for older woman would she feel better about commenting on a physical attribute? Maybe they are just being nice....but if some of these MILFS at work were my age, i'd definitely be counting IOIs. Hopefully i can get some tips...boning a MILF would be incredible.

I've not been on the forum for a while, but I've just noticed Tripp's post. I thought you had been banished dude!

MILFS are gifts from heaven btw!

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Scrap that first part - I think he's still banished.

Generally, women get better with age (not too old though). I get myself into a few rut's here and there with younger girls who are rubbish when it comes to sex and are often dumb. Older the girl, better in bed and the more intelligent.

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On Sunday, I F-closed my first MILF. I must say she was down for it (for the first F) more than any chick I've been with.

I love this Game....

lol nice betamale..seriously i have a good chance at my job...but usually most MILFS have a kid in the back or somewhere in the discussion "my kids" is said....that sucks. But i'd curious on the field report on this one, if you have the time =P

the nice thing about MILF's is that they're old enough to know what a guy wants, and when they are old enough to want it too, they make it a lot easier. besides, women hit their sexual peak when their older, while men hit it earlier (obviously)

but, i haven't been with a MILF, but everything i hear about them just sounds exciting! ooohhh yeah!

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Welcome Dude...

Yup totally about Milfs... as bad as it sounds I've found that a LOT of couples these days are getting divorced around the 5 year mark...

God i'm an arse... but recently I've just been gaming women that are around the 4/5year mark and biding my time. I'm 25 most of them are 30-35 and it's worked on countless occasions where they are just bored, divorced and looking to get slammed!

Haha ah well someone has to take on the monumental responsibility of providing a release for these fine women... But their not girlfriend material for me which is a downside coz I hate Kids!!!

Anyways welcome... or should I say 'welcome back' to the community.

Here is the field report of my first MILF pickup:

My roommate and I were throwing a 4th of July bash at our house and my friend Alisa brought the MILF in question.

Because she was in such awesome shape, we made her produce pictures of her kids to prove it.

I could tell she was supremely confident, so I started negging her quite a bit.
Examples include:
Her saying that she liked Hannah Montana (my response: are you still clinging to your days as a 12 year old?).
When making bocci teams: As long as I'm not with her.

After the negging we sit next to each other and I start some cold reading. One that always works on extroverts: "Although you are obviously outgoing, you definitely have a shy introspective side to you".

She was astounded.

We started to dance in my living room and I made sure to neg her dancing ability vs. mine (push pull)

I then ask her if she was drunk, which she denied (she wasnt). I then used the soobriety test kiss close, which I posted the other day.

We then went to watch the fireworks, and made out during them (it was pretty sweet).

At the end of the night we exchanged numbers. She texted me 8 times the next day. I was sensing some Stage 5 Clinger action so I responded with terse responses.

The next day she called me to go over and "watch a movie". I admit it was weird hooking up in front of play castles and action figures, but this women was exactly that. Not a girl, but a women.

So thats the anatomy of a MILF pickup. The same principles apply but it is critical to display the 'protector of loved ones' attraction switch (which I did with DHV stories and talking about me protecting my kid brother).

Hope this was helpful.
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Awesome post man! Freaking Great. I am a little concerned about you saying good is the enemy of great. You married a good women, and became unhappy because of the choice you made. I think you might be unhappy with yourself. If you can't love yourself while you’re by yourself, or even with a good women you won’t be able to love yourself and be happy with a great one.

Just my thoughts.

-Magnum

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