Dear All

I am new to the forum and have a query , I am an indian guy studying in ireland , i am 5.7 and look good and have no problem approaching HBs and i also can get a proper convo going. but all the girl here seem to run away for me can any one explain to me why?

A) Is it a turn off for a girl to date an Indian Guy ?

Example 1:- I go on to the dance floor and start having a good time dancing and approached a girl and asked for a dance and she said "sorry i have taste"
Example 2:- I am sitting in my staff canteen and sit in a accessible place to everyone and invite a girl to have a sit she refused and move away.

Example 3:- I approached a HB sitting in the canteen who i already know and she knows me and i just put my try and putted the chair and sat, she got up and move away and join another group

GUY OR GIRLS please explain to me whats wrong with me

I've seen hot babes with Indian guys. Its something about the way you dress or act, using your body language. Could be your voice tonality. Its something initially about your approach that they find unattractive. Maybe your approaching the HB rather than her ugly friends first, and haven't won your social status.

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Yea man, I agree with Impact

I have seen Super HB with Indian guys, hell guys who are wayyyy better than me.

Maybe there are some fundamentals that you need to work on

Your confidence

Remember, there is nothin more irresistible to women that casual confidence.

Your body languaje
Your body languaje speaks everything about you, the words do matter, but if your body languaje is not proper then words won't matter

Your looks (remember you don't need to best looking guy, but you need to look your BEST)

For example, you're dark skin, you should try wearing light colors, or even something like green and black pants, black dress shoes, and black socks of course

There is stuff a lot deeper than that

But if you're conscious that these may be areas that are preventing your game,,

then ask for help, here or consult webpages,

even better befriend a girl with good taste and ask her

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The only problem you have is in your head (inner game) .
You must not care what race you are , you must not care what you look like .

Also you don't ask for a dance , and you don't ask her to sit down
That just gives her an oportunity to say no , and the one thing you don't need is to give her the power of diciding . You tell her to sit down.

That's the two things that turn off the chicks insecurity , and not being dominant sex (leting her decide)

hi
thank a million for the reply i feel much better now

-hey mate gota work on your inner game it doesn t matter if u R indian or a ten feet cepalopod remember if u know how to play it, there´s nothing that cann stop u

cheers mate

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Que le digo a la muerte, tantas veces llamada a mi lado,
que al cabo se ha vuelto mi hermana?

-"I Can Bend Your Mind"- Sovnarkom

YOU NEED SELF-CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!
(sry about the caps..)

If this makes you feel better i saw today a HB9 hand-to-hand with her boyfriend... a guy nerd-type,extremelly tall,with many many killos on him!

Looks play a small role in the game.

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Also as mentioned above, don't ask her, command her (in the begining not directly..)
Or ask her questions that she don't have the choices to say no.(basically there are commands)

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Now if the HB you are approaching are 9-10's , first you must disarm their 'superiority' against guys by compliment her while the same moment insulting her(!), or low her value (Negs)
After some negs, when her shields are down, you can begin to play the game with her..

Good Luck my friend, and remember to believe in yourself..

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Well, I'm gonna be honest with you here.

1) Sometimes, girls (and people in general) can be downright racist, thats something your just going to have to deal with being of a certain ethnic decent. A few of my buddies have the same problem.

2) I have a lot of girls that are just very close friends, and coming directly from their mouths, alot of Indian men creep them out. Now this isn't because they are racist, its because a large group of Indian as well as Arab and other ethnic men approach girls in a very direct and threatening manner. I've seen countless men of ethnic decent just walk up behind girls and start dancing. And thinking from a woman perspective, I wouldn't enjoy some guys dick rubbing on my ass if I have never even seen and can't see his face. This of course is a stereotype, because people of all races do it. But it just so happens that a large population of ethnic men act this way. This again, is something that you really can't stop and are just going to have to deal with.

3) Having all this being said, you can still try approaching in clubs and bars, your just going to have to work around these things. Try a more subtle approach perhaps. Maybe with a group surrounding so you appear less "threatening" to them.

4) Try gaming women in other areas, maybe the stereotypes in bars and clubs are just too much for you to overcome at this level of your game. Go and game girls in other places, there are plenty of females to go around and not all of them want to be gamed in a bar. Once your shining with confidence and have 2 girls walking into a club with you (that you met in another place), you'll be able to do it, I assure you of that.

5) Like the others above me said, its a matter of confidence and inner game as well.