Ok, so here is the deal. I have probably done around ten sets in my life and did pretty well for about all of them (all of them in the last year when i began the game0. anyway, so i just came back from Israel where i sarged the crap out of alot of girls at this club. I ended up having good, interesting sets, and i was a bit drunk on top of that. (dont worry. i am in complete controle when im drunk. people cant even tell). So basically, i have no problem approaching at partys and clubs. Now, I went yesterday to a water park filled with HBs and i told myself that i was gonna sarge like crazy. however, when the time came, i coulnt work up the courage. So instead i just did my normal AFC shit and not talk to any girls. Anyone know what i should do?

we all ahve approach anxiety. im guessing as the HBs were in bathing suits you felt intimidated. Thats what im guessing as your half naked as well, we all remember that nightmare when we do tests naked and everyone is laughing, i bet thats what your thinking in you head.

1. youve done it before on the nyts so you can do it. my advice would be to think like you do on those nyts out, imagine your in a club and he girls have got clothes on, your mind will be more comfortable and will be able to do it.

2. talk to some undesirable ones first. then you will get used to talking to girls that are half naked, you will feel more confident after, then your can work you was up to some more desirable women.

3. Most PUAs have a quote that they say in there head to remove there anxiety e.g if you ask her she mite like you, if you dont she wont!.

mine is 'death smiles at us all, the only thing a man can do is smile back' i no its lame and doesnt relate to women but it removes my anxiety as i feel brave.

Hope this helped

I agree fully with brookes12 here. Think that you've done it before, and you've had fun with it. But I also have to quote Mystery on this one "First set on the left! Get into a talkative state."

Another thing is: don't think about it as pick-up. Think of it as either building a skillset, or just being social and having fun. The three-second-rule is also a good thing, because then you wont have time to think through what might go wrong.

What I do is I see the first 3 sets in a night as warm-up sets. It does not matter if they succeed or fail, I do not care if they are even attractive. I just approach some people who does not have any value whatsoever for me. Sometimes you get lucky in your warmup sets but most of the time, I just open, go into A2, A3 and eject.
After getting that far in 3 sets the rest of the sets lose their value too. You can always come back to your first sets if you ejected in a good way just in case your later sets will not respond as well as you would like them to.

Just remember that there are more fish in the sea, if you fail a set... No worries, open another one. These girls dont mean anything. If they want to be with you fine, if not, next...