Okay so one thing that has proved far more elusive for me than sex is blowjobs. Once past all the main components of the game and the sexual interaction has started what do I do? It seems unlikely that the answer is to ask her "Will you give me a blowjob?" LOL. So here I am again searching for the answers to life's hardest questions ^_^.

Thanks guys.

good question
she gives me handjob while she kissing me but how do i get her to put her mouth on it? definitely not by asking her

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"Get down there and suck that fucking dick."

Assuming this is a normal pickup, meaning you are exploring each other sexually for the first time, you have a few options.

I have actually said this before: "I don't think I want to have sex with you tonight, but you can blow me if you want." We were making out on her back porch and she continued to try to get me to take her home and fuck her. She asked, "Have you ever had road-head before?" I answered, "Yes, but I've never had porch-head." She went down and spit-shined my dick.

The point system actually works well for this. Throughout the night, give and take away points. She gets two here, loses one there, etc. When you get her back to your place, lead the conversation to talk about the points and explain it's your little rule to make you behave. How many points a girl has determines how far you will allow yourself to go with her. If she asks how many she has just say "not enough, but if anyone could beat the system, I think it might be you."

She now knows that she's going to have to warm you up before having sex, so she is much more likely to go down on you. Once she's down there, just get your nut.

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any other indirect ways? i tried getting her mouth close to it by kissing her back and her bending down and making her a couple of inches away from my dick while giving me an hj but it didnt work.
what else can i do?

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Indirect... blowjob... nah, that's not gonna work. Sounds to me like she either doesn't know what the hell to do or she likes being told. Just tell her to suck it, holy shit. You think she's gonna get offended if you tell her to put your dick in her mouth or something?

I was with a girl the other night having some foreplay and simply said, "I want to feel your lips wrapped around me." She immediately started going down on me.

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yea im looking for something along those lines as i think she will get offended when im more upfront

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You worry WAY too much. She has your cock in her hand. She is jacking it. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's usually a sign that she wants sex. And when I say usually, I mean she may as well have it stamped on her forehead. That's like her handing you a piece of your favourite cake but keeping the fork, and you being afraid to ask for the fork so you can eat it. She wouldn't give you the fucking cake if she didn't want you to eat it, use your brain and stop being scared of nothing.

Boom! And there it is.

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Dalziel - down to the point as usual. You're definitely one of the few value givers on the forum, I have nothing but utter respect for you.

OK, I got the love festival out of the way, here's my take on the problem...

I'm much more of a devious tactical planner, so I like to take care of problems before they arise. This essentially means: manage expectations, and do it well.

If I want a blowjob (shouldn't have used that 'if', really...) I will drop that in casually when I'm pumping BT - either running a pattern, or just talking about sex. Once I'm on the subject of sex...

[HB] [insert some line about what she enjoys in sex]
[Ace] You know what I really love? That with each person, there are soo many ways of giving pleasure... and as you explore them, the whole experience becomes even more exciting for both of you...

I've hinted that vaginal penetration isn't the only thing I do. Also, I'm projecting the belief that giving me pleasure will feel very exciting for her (which it will).

[Ace - continuing] I mean, I just love figuring out what the other person enjoys most, it's very arousing... kind of like a challenge. And you see them in absolute extasy and it's almost enough to push you over the edge...

Read: you will have to do more than spread your legs to satisfy me missy, so get ready to put in some serious effort.

[Ace - continuing] with me, the one thing that gets me incredibly turned on is when a woman explores my body with her hands and her mouth... ha, just thinking about it feels hot

Read: think about sucking me off and feel aroused. This should do it, but if you want to make it redundantly clear

[Ace - continuing] But what I enjoy most... Is when I feel the lips and tounge give me really intense pleasure... It still surprises me to this day how great it feels... honestly, it just feels like... a five-minute... constant... orgasm...

Women get incredible pleasure from... well, pleasing the guy. That's why Shade's technique of saying that you're about to come for five minutes is so effective.

What I've done so far: I've planted the idea that giving pleasure feels great (which is true for all women, I'm just reminding her) and I've given her a way of giving great pleasure to me. I don't think I need to spell it out.

Bon appetit!

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I'd usually just say something like

You:You know I've never finished from a blowjob. Is that weird?

HB: Really? blahblahblah

You: Are you up for the challenge?


Thats usually the make it or break it sign. Like Daz said she has your dick in her hand why the hell wouldn't she? Just be playful about it.

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You could try a one liner !!

"well it aint gonna suck itself"

sort of a 50/50 chance depending on the Girl !

You could get a slap or you could get a suck.

Extreme cocky-funny !!!

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DUDE, that's so good. Coming from a girl, IMO, that statement is the right amount of innuendo, euphemism, blatant sexual language, and authority.

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aright i have tried using that line of lips wrapped around me, and telling her directly but the result was the same

"I am not ready to do that yet"


any other advice?

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