So I broke up with my gf 2 months ago, she`s gorgeous, like an HB8.5/9 her only downsight is her height. She`s very intelligent and funny. I was playing the game ever since and got a lost of kiss close... still not fclose. So She texted me and said she wanted to talk to me. We had casual sex... It was te best sex I had in my whole life... It doesn't say much because I had sex with only 2 girls. The thing is that I thought I didn't feel anything for her anymore... But now I'm starting to fall in love again... I really like her but we didn't work before. I said to her I needed to be alone for at least a year more. But she is pushing it and I'm afraid I can fall again!. So you think I should stop having casual sex with her?? or handle it like an alpha male?

Hey MAte is not about sex is about you maybe u are not as mature as u think in order to be fucking all the wayup, just game her but keep r distance just remember to keep ur distance dont slip, and if u want keep sex aside if u think sex is like a contract for mutal love or whteva

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My jaded advice is to play her and use her - just don't make it obvious. If she is pushing you or manipulating you with sex she doesnt really care about you and probably is just using yuou. I think 95% of girls feel better when they have a bf whether they love him or cheat on him or not.

Seriously, I have been burned many many times and quite coldly I might add and there seem to be no ethics or morals in love as in war. Take what she offers...she will gladly give it. But the time will come when she will ask you for things in return. You need to think of yourself as HER target at this point - she will say or do anything to get what she wants. I bet one day she will all sentimental and pathetic and try to get you to pity her. At that point I would just tell her what she wants to hear and keep telling yourself that if she wants to be your one and only she needs to prove it first without being told what to do. Basically, don't give in or sign your power and confidence over to her just because she makes puppy dog eyes and tells you she needs you.

Its about survival not about cooperation based on unwritten, unspoken contracts. No matter how badly youwant to you can't trust her.

2 cents

I just said to her that I didn't want to see her anymore, I love her too much, I can't use her for sex neither play with her feelings.

EXCUSE ME.... DAMAGE, WHAT DID YOU JUST ADVICE?
"PLAY HER AND USE HER?" Are you out of your mind
Being a PUA is not about USING women, it's about making them feel better and feel better urself
Maybe you should get your ethics down first

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Im going to concur with Romeo here

If you have gotten burned, then you were in to deep. Even if you were a commited relationship and she did something, then maybe you lost your appeal and became AFC.....

Vengence is not alpha, it is weakness.

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Double Your Dating by DD
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(This will work on your outer game)

Im going to concur with Romeo here

If you have gotten burned, then you were in to deep. Even if you were a commited relationship and she did something, then maybe you lost your appeal and became AFC.....

Vengence is not alpha, it is weakness.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

Masamune:
A couple of things. First of all, love is fucking awesome. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being involved in a long-term relationship. They can be rewarding in ways that short-term relationships can't be. You get to know someone on a much deeper level in a long-term relationship than a three-night stand. It sounds to me like you have some very complicated feelings for this girl in particular, and I'm glad you made the decision you did. You need to figure yourself out before you can re-commit to being in a relationship. Also, when you attempt to redefine a relationship along new lines of thinking, it tends to go badly. You have a new outlook on how relationships are supposed to be, while she expects everything to be like it was. Not great for maintaining healthy relations.

Decide what you want. Make a list of the things your next relationship needs to be. And when you're looking at getting into that relationship, make sure that those things are explicit. This is why Statements of Intent are so incredibly important.

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you have to know something,it seems ur really new at this game. what you have there is nothing called love my dear friend,its just attraction. you said she's your second girl to have sex with right? then your not falling inlove with her,your just atrracted to the good sex you guys have. and since your not looking for other girls or either not even trying then at the end you always end up back wanting to have sex with her when u are horny. my advice is to try and approach other girls. and by the help of great PUA'S in this forum,am sure your going to be sleeping with more than three different girls in one week

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if u wnt ha den u must tek d risk of luzn ha. follow d rules n d game wil flow.

I LIED!! SHE's my first and only one girl!!! She treated me like garbage!! I need to forget her!! Please tell me how!!!!!!!!!

See what happened guys? She didnt pull her punches, she wasnt compassionate or sympathetic when he was emotionally open and vulnerable - she took what she wanted...converted it into her energy source and coldly split

Lets be honest - everyone - EVERYONE - uses people. Even your best friend in the world is good for somthing, otherwise you wouldnt waste you time. The difference between being alpha and being AFC is the choice to not settle, its about movement, progression, evolution. Romeo would you seriously hang out with someone who had absolutely no positive effect on your life? You use people and people use you - it's practically the defenition of being a member of society. Don't get me wrong, its give and take, I use and get used but as long as it is on a fair scale it doesnt bother me.

Now where the Sticky Icky comes about is that moment where she asks you to commit, that she wants something more. YOu have two choice. a) tell the truth, that you arent ready and are happy with things the way they are (where you risk losing her) or B) lying and saying yes but knowing that you are not giving her everything she thinks you are. There is also a C) which is honestly take it to the next level like she wants.

Im still torn between the two. A) has led to me losing alot of girls and C) only leads down the road to betrayal....and I havent yet tried B). So I think the next time i am faced with the choice it is clear which I will take...

I went back with this girl, the five months or so were wonderful... but then everything went to hell like always... I broke up with her again, I was the one who broke up the relationship, I'm weak I need to forget her, my damn feelings won't make me go back again... really I need serious help.