I only sarge online when Im sick and/or dont feel like going out. Heres a good opener I use online:

Bedrock: "Hey I need a females perspective on something...say this guy is dating this girl for like 7 months, and she goes out to a party with her friends, has a couple of beers and ends up making out with a random guy... Would you consider this cheating?"
Her: "yes/no..blah blah blah"
Bedrock: "ok...let me ask you this, take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost everytime she goes out. Would you consider this cheating?"
Her: "yes/no..blah blah blah"
Bedrock: "(After she replies to the last question you need to make up a good story to go along with this opener). (then say) I like your take on things. We should talk more. Let me get your screen name. I promise Ill only send you a message like 20 times a day "

After I get her SN I'll talk to her a little bit. Now here you need to have good conversation skills to keep her interested. Then from there you should be able to get her number easy.

Bro, sorry about your condition. Good luck.

first, create curiosity with the subject line. I usually type something that is not related to her or dating at all. my favorite is, "I'm just an innocent email, don't delete me." That will get her to read it almost 100% of the time. Next, if you're only contacting 8s and up...NEG NEG NEG...it's easy to ignore a person if you're sitting behind a computer screen. So, you really need to get her attention. Pick something out of her picture, the lighting, background, hair, makeup, a pet that's in the pic with her, anything that you can be creative with. Also, one thing I've noticed with POF, is that a lot of responses are the same to what they're looking for. I.E. want a stable, honest, mature, employed guy with his own place ... blah blah blah...I'll do something like this:

stable: I've been committed to an insane assylum
mature: that would depend on your definition
employed: does a paper route count?
honest: I would like to have coffee with you and discuss the meaning of life.

I will use as much C&F as I can at the start of the email...and at the very end, I'll be a bit more serious, but keep things playful and fun. If you just compliment her, she'll assume you're like every other guy.

Plus, like David DeAngelo says: When talking to a woman, remember the advice you're mama gave you, and do the complete polar opposite.

Hope this helps, happy hunting, and wish ya luck in improving your situation.

Hey man,

Find a way to get out of the apartment. You don't have to sarge online, and your disability shouldn't be a problem if your inner game is in line. Remember: attraction isn't a choice.

You may even be able to derive some witty openers based on your disability.

Wish ya the best.

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negging cannot be done without demonstrating value first

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could you give an example??

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DHV. Tell an interesting/exiting story using emotive language that includes subtle cluse that you have some qualities such as pre-selection, leadership, social proof, correct emotional wiring etc.

Part of it is being able to make your own, It's important.

In 3 easy steps:

1: Write down an exiting story from your life.

2: Re write it to include any details such as girls being around, you making important decicions etc. Include emotive language, and describe how you felt, what you saw/heared, as much or more than what actually happened.

3: Practice, practice, practice. Trim it down so it's a good size to throw into conversation, then just tell it to everyone until you can reel it off without thinking about the words, so you can focus on deliverey and body language.

That DHV is now "in the can".

Rinse and repeat!

I had an experience just like mozy years ago... the "you like flowers, I like flowers" emails... no responses! I actually set up a fake POF profile with a hot girls' picture and waited for the emails to pour in. A year later, I get notification of new mail every day, but I've given up looking. It's all the same incoherent blather like "wahtz up giRl?!"

I did sign up for POF as a free women simulator, since I'd rather meet people in person. But I've found you can get some pretty good responses. I've tried a bunch of stuff, most of it my own, but the far and away best line for getting responses (about 80%) is one I poached from DYD: "Wow, you're perfect. Let's go to Vegas and get married this weekend. Are you free?" I'll sometimes throw in something based on her profile at the end to indicate I'm not spamming every chic on there. If she likes cooking, I'll say she can cook something for me and bring it with her.

I personally met a couple people on there, including one stunning girl from Argentina who was the coolest chic ever. I ended up moving shortly after we met, so it didn't work out. I'm on here looking for suggestions from others, because surely a lot of the PUAs are hooking up from online (some survey said 1/3 of chics that meet from online dating put out the first date... most of those guys aren't PUAs), but IMO a lot of the chics online are 1) attention whores looking to validate themselves and/or 2) innocent, jaded girls who think most guys are players and that guys online are nice AFCs who will go sloooow, and that want to spend months online before meeting up. I go right for the phone number, and if I get resistance or more stalling, I move on. You don't need online penpals who don't want to meet in real life.