I'm new to the PUA community and I was wondering if anyone could help me out. When I go out to the clubs and bars, I never know if I'm going to get lucky or not. I have enough confidence to approach women, but I get a lot of mixed results. I think the problem is that sometime I come off as a nice, but timid guy and other times I'm confident and a little cocky (usually when I'm drunk). When I've been drinking, I have a "I don't give a fuck" atitude that most women seem to like, but it's not the same when I'm sober. Can someone give me advice on how to be cocky and display confidence in my speech, body posture, and actions all the time.

It's not to know if your getting lucky or not. When I go to the club/bar I know for a fact that i will close someone. Also, the "I dont give a fuck" attitude is good. I have an attitude of "I'm just here to have fun, so whatever happens it doesn't matter".

To have confidence in your speech, you must project your voice. Stand up straight, keep your head up, and hands out of your pocket. I always tell my self that I'm confident, and people love me. It's all about affirmations! Multiple times a day I do my affirmations. If you keep telling your self that your confident multiple times a day, your mind starts believing it, so you become it!

Take some beer with you when you go out sarging.

Nah just kidding here m8

One GREAT way to get rid of timid is to buy new clothes! Cool clothes for yourself!
What I did was that I bought this huge hat and weared it for 1 week. First few days were kind of awful, but eventually I got comfortable with it. After that I changed the hat to a funky coloured cowboy hat, and right now I ain't timid or shy at all!

P.s. Feeling timid = One type of approach anxiety.

dont pre drink bro it doesnt help as much as you think. definately get some new threads it will make you feel a lot more fresh about yourself.