another sarge on my first time out on day game.

i went into borders bookstore with my wing. we walked "looking for books of interest"

so i found a HB7.5

my wing (and thankgod he did this) forced me to get over this approach anxiety. so i grabbed a book off the shelf called "everything a girls needs to know".

me: tap HB on shoulder " excuse, i need your opinion on something, its my sisters birthday, and im trying to find her a present, do you think this book is a little to sarcastic" i hold up the book and show her.

HB: " ah-ha, well maybe, how old is she turning?"
me: "15 turning 16"
me: "so at 16, would've read this book? like, if i bought this for you as a present im pretty sure u would throw it at me" *slight grin"

she laughs and smiles.

I run into a story with DHV's, i said that i didnt want to buy my "sister" a gif certificate as i wanted to put more thought into it (DHV i hve values, care about my sister) and she agreed and said it was good that im thinking bout her and not jus being cheap and giving her a gift voucher.

i then started picking up more books, like books on football and books on the mafia, and one on golf

me: "how bout if i got her a book on golf!? look even the book is the shape of a gold ball! you would love this sooooooo much if i gave this you..wouldnt you!"

she laughs again, we go into some more convo..

after this,

me "well thanks alot for your help, and if my sister cracks it at me, because she doesnt like the book YOU picked, im blaming you!" with a sarcastic tone and a grin.
this makes her laugh alot..we both say bye. and i exit.


i engaged in kino twice, when i opened and when i closed, and i gave her a high five to create some more comfort when she was helping me find a book.

what else should i hve done? any pointers?


cheers.
K.

Sounds pretty smooth, you could have tried for an intsant-date at the end there, try it next time!

so what would hve been a good way to number close?

K.

# closes are a bit of a special case. For one, they are really encouraging to newbie PUAs who are looking for any kind of close in a sec, but for another, they are practically worthless.

Naturally, I dont mean getting a girl's number is worthless, but if that's all youre aiming for, then it is. Ideally, the girl should want to #-close YOU so you two can stay in touch (being an attractive alpha male as you are, sir), in which case, there's no real routine you need to get her number, just give her your phone or tell her to give it to you.

That being said, there is something to getting numbers when you are new that's very reassuring, so the general form I do it in is as follows (remember, it's entierley based on your attraction and comfort built. If she doesnt want to give it to you after this, she wouldnt pick up when you called anyway. Even with this it's not garunteed).

PUA: "Hey, this has been cool, we should do this again sometime"
HER: "Agree"
PUA: *Pass her your phone* "Go for it"
--Say it as if she wanted to put her number in, and you are 'letting' her.

If she doesnt, you havent built enough attraction and comfort!

Remember that while getting numbers is 'cool', it doesnt really mean anything if you were only aiming for that. Get her attracted, and getting her number wont be a problem at all.

For that reason, asking how you should #close a girl is kind of pointless, you should be asking how to build more attraction/comfort such that she WANTS to give it to you.

hey man cheers for the number close technique i like it..

so i have to pretty much continually refine my attraction and comfort skills, then move to number close or K-close, or both!

im new so still learning everything.

would taking her on an instant date build more comfort?

K.