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Savage1
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I'll try that.
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Yeah... lately I've been finding that I have some serious issues with approaching groups. They sometimes seem to be so wrapped up in their own little world or clique, and so ADD, that my approach feels like it would go unnoticed or laughed at.

Sticking Point #1 for me at the moment.

#2 would be keeping them interested past the initial opener. Sometimes I can do it if I click with the right fun personality, but other times it's a real drag.


So yeah... I may give this one a shot!
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fuck that man thats an opener if ive ever seen 1 and an absolute cracker of an opener aswell 5 stars!! 8)

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yea this shit is genius.. definitely an opener. However, I'm having trouble transitioning into a topic of conversation that doesn't make it seem like I'm hanging around too long after using this.
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I like it ...
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That's an absolute belter of an opener. (The original post that is) > i'll be trying that one out tomorrow.

Goal: get 50 HB's to 'reject' me.
hahah lol, nice goal!
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THIS IS FUCKING GOLD!

I've came up with an interesting variation:

-Hi, I have a request... pretend I'm hitting on you and reject me bla bla
*gets rejected*
-You could do better but.. Ok, now that you know that I'm not really hitting on you, I can tell you I'm curious about you... are you friendly?

This is a direct approach and I think it's quite a good one.
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That's brilliant!

Not only that, but you could change it up into gaming, if you played it right.

Or you might get a response like "I wouldn't reject a cute guy like you", etc etc, in which case you're already set.

Using it tomorrow, hopefully.

Hahaha it doesn't seem like a good way to get over AA though, you still have to approach. Although approaching is the best way to get over AA.

This seems like a double cure, AA and rejection.
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Actually I think this is a fantastic opener. It puts the women on the spot to come up with something original which you can then be playful about...

"You can do better than that!"

or you can pretend to take it too hard...

"I'm gonna go over there and cry... you guys are mean."

you can even transition this into talking about how most guys are afraid of approaching women, a topic we all know quite a bit about.

Not only is this a fun exercise, but it's actually a great opener that gives us plenty to work off of to extend the conversation.

I am going to field test this next time I head out sarging.
I am using this as an opener. It goes with cocky/funny quite well in the responses that can be given.
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This exercise has done wonders for me. Let me know how it works for you.

Are you familiar with the common themes of 'embrace rejection' and 'it's not that bad, really'? Well, I have decided to take them to an extreme.

Approach the set. Say 'hi, I have a really weird request'. Add a pause.
'I want you to imagine I'm hitting on you, and I want you to reject me in the most terrible way you can come up with'.

They will usually giggle for a few moments until coming up with ideas. Wait for a response. Thank them and eject.

This makes rejection seem like the game that it is. It's not meant to harm you. It's humorous, it's fun. Enjoy.
I am going to use this next time i go out. I like "imagine i am hitting on you", should make them feel a bit more at ease. Would prefer to get a female opinion on this one though as well :P.

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I like it. Cant really get your hopes up with that one :D
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Wow, this one is solid gold. I have huge AA problem, especially HB9-10 seem quite impossible for me to even talk with. Gotta try this to get my inner game started, the present state is awful.
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this is a very good opner..im having aa issues myself ina bar situation...on the net tottally different feeling im talking to some real knockout hb's and its great...but in person i have the hardest time building up the courage...i freeaze choke whatever..but with this opener it makes sence...if i can just ask them to reject me b4 hand then after time i wont care anymore if i do get rejected....awesome post......



"everytime i hear the words i cant....i say to myself watch me".....tony stewart
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thanks man!
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It would probably be perceived less weird if not framed as "a weird request". Also, would it be better to ask for a favor? I thought there was some NLP aspect to favors.
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