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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:01 am 
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So, I have come to the realization that often one on one help is the best way to advance. Inevitably this means having a mentor. I also think that I am not the only one out there looking for help in this manner.

This thread has one main purpose... for students to find someone to teach them, and vice versa.

So, if you are a PUA willing to help someone out, post it here. If you are an rAFC looking for help, post it here.

I am still currently an rAFC myself. I am making significant progress though. I am looking for a mentor. The main thing I need help with right now is becoming a good story teller and refining/creating DHV stories.

Also, I am somewhat knowledgeable in theory, but have very little experience. If someone wishes for me to mentor them knowing this, I would be more than happy to.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:09 am 
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I would be interested in finding a mentor except the problem is everyone is from different places. Im from sydney. Anyone willing, please pm me.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 10:03 am 
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Well I'm looking for a mentor/colleuge to discuss PU matters with so we can mutually benefit each others game and develope a better understanding of our arts.

However I am willing as my signature says to give anyone PU help.

Of course I do expert in dealing with groups and dealing with day game situations. But I'll answer on other things as well; such as phone game etc.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 12:30 pm 
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I helped Zoit out a bit regarding some problems he's PM'd to me, but I'd really regard myself as a rAFC too so far. I'll help where I can, but I wouldnt make myself anyone's first choice.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:01 pm 
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This seems like the right place for a shameless plug. :mrgreen:

I'm based in Belfast, N. Ireland and am currently instructing on a one to one basis. I pretty much rely on word of mouth for people to find me, but if anyone in the vicinity of Belfast who needs help in person happens across this, you can contact me via PM or email and I'll arrange something. Don't forget, all the mods on here are mentors, as are a number of regular posters aswell. So, if you need general help via messenger or whatever, that's what they're here for.


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I think this is a great idea. I would say I'm a rAFC, only been in the game for about 6 months. I also live in California, I'll be willing to give out my phone number and maybe adress depending if he lives in my town.

So if anyone wants to teach me, :) email me.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 3:07 pm 
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I don't trust "mentors" anymore... My good friend who was my mentor gave me in, not too long time ago, to my targets behind my back and right now, with a good chance, I'm hated in my *old* social circle, if not, I hate them.
Shit happens, who cares? I just get new girls and build up a new social circle.


P.s. The reason that my mentor gave me in I do not know, but I think he had a crush on my target, and he can't handle the game as good as I can so he gave me in to her and her friends about what I "really" do. I got blown out (I think), and my so called *friend* fell deep into her LJBF. I even teached him the game a LOT.

Thats my experience from "mentors", end of the story.
So basically I do solo sarging because I don't trust people, they lie too much.

Though that friend wasn't much of a mentor, more like a cheer up.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:28 pm 
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P.s. The reason that my mentor gave me in I do not know, but I think he had a crush on my target, and he can't handle the game as good as I can so he gave me in to her and her friends about what I "really" do. I got blown out (I think), and my so called *friend* fell deep into her LJBF. I even teached him the game a LOT.

Thats my experience from "mentors", end of the story.
So basically I do solo sarging because I don't trust people, they lie too much.

Though that friend wasn't much of a mentor, more like a cheer up.
Sorry? one guy was a dick to you, and you're going to let that stop you from following I a really potentially helpful programme, in fact why did the fact that they know you did game affact they way they percieved you, are you embarressed or insecure about being associted here, I think you should get back with your old circle and straighten things out.


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I'm a rAFC in HS right now and I'm willing to trade numbers with someone about my age so that I can text for in the field advice or going through a FR. I'm in Humble, TX by the way, about 10 minutes out of Houston if anyone happens to live around there. PM me if interested.

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Same problem I need one too.

Detroit, MI more specific Eastpoite

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As Dalziel said, all of the mods are mentors, myself included. I think all of us are also running workshops for anyone interested in more in depth training.

I'm currently situated in Calgary and will be living in either Vancouver or Toronto within the next 3 months.

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I think all of us are also running workshops for anyone interested in more in depth training.
I don't run workshops yet, but I still help people in-field for free. Right now I'm in California (Bay Area), and I'm in New Orleans starting in late August.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 11:39 am 
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Hey nice response to this topic guys im pretty pumped. I'm sending out pm's to the posts that apply to me.

Maybe I should clarify as well. Mentoring can occur online, it doesn't have to be someone who lives near you necessarily.

Rye Lee and Chief its nice to see you guys in my topic :). I have read many of your posts lately and you both seem quite knowledgeable. I was especially surprised in Chief's case since you are younger than me :P.

I won't be on the forum for about three days as I will be away, but after that I'm back!!!

I'm in Massachusetts if anyone happens to be from around there.


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hey chief, im in the south bay, let me know if you want to get somethin goin, id be happy to roll with you.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 10:41 pm 
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I'm kind of looking for a mentor, but I probably really only need someone to give me the push, which could include anyone who is actually into PUA. I'm generally fairly good at PUA, in theory, completely able to know what to do right but lack the courage to do anything with that knowledge. However, I know for a fact that when I am around friends who are good around girls my game improves, and I know that if I was around anyone who actively knew about PUA or was trying to learn I would have that little push I needed to become great.

Huddersfield for now, but soon returning to Scarborough for university.

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