so i was at a friends party and this guy slaps me in the face. he was drunk and i thought that he was just playing around. so i let it go. then he slaps me again so i slap him back. then at some other point in the night my friend wrestles me. And out of nowhere this guy (i have to state that i do not know this guy) starts starts wrestling me (sounds kinda gay now that i type it). Then at some other point in the night he pinches my nipples. I have to say that he would give the impression that he was kidding around and then would do something like slap me. And when i was leaving he starts trying to wrestle me again. I dont know whether or not he wanted to feel my manhood in his ass or wanted to pick on some little kid (i am 5'3" and look young) but should i have just ended this in the very beginning by and clocked him in the face? i've never encountered anything like this but i'd like to to stop happening again. thinking about it now makes me feel like a bitch.

typical solution would be to befriend him, how? improvise, you didn't seem to have attempted to do so

other suggestions anyone?

befriend him? i dont know whether he wanted to befriend me or fucking fight me. at the end of the day, i realized that i let him cross the line. I just need to know how to check people like this.

I would have hit him.

But in PUA terms this won't help you at all.

Man, a slap in the face is definately crossing the line, don't take it even as a joke. You have to stop it right there.

I would have looked him straight in the eye put my finger in his face and said in a firm voice: "YOU WILL NOT DO THAT AGAIN".

Take Jiu-jitsu classes, he would be in for a nasty surprise when he tried to wrestle you no matter how small you are, even if you had just a few months of classes. Take my word on that.

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Reminds me of me when I was in grade 8. For some reason some guys like "fight/wrestle" kids that are smaller than them. I don't think he actually wanted to fight you just to mess around(not in a gay way either). These guys don't look make themselves look good by beating up a kid smaller than them.I ended up being friends with these guys and they were pretty cool to hang around with. Also it help me alot in learning to take punches etc.

But then again this was only my situation, so I can't assume its the same. I also grew to 6 ft and went to the gym, so no one messes with me now.

ya homie you shoulda hit him. after the first slap i woulda knocked him on his ass

getting slapped is a sign of total disrespect so the slap throws your alpha status down the drain. just knock him out selfrespect is more important than girls at a party but then again if you had enough reason to fight him it shows you can protect girls (good way to score points) and you will have something to talk about during the remainder of the party

I would say this. If somebody does something like that again, just say something like this.

"Listen guy, you are cool and all, but don't hit me again. I just don't like it when people do that kind of shit to me. Ok?"

If he does it again, then you are defending yourself at that point. Some people get rowdy when they are drunk and don't realize the stupidity they are displaying. I would also block the hits if you see it coming.