Here's the deal:

I grew up in the city.
I get women with not much problem.
I can be aggressive, I have some kind of game already just from growing up around fearless men, in a way I am fearless as well. (albeit cheapass, discounted fearlessness)
I'm often regarded as handsome.
I have an M.A. from a top 10 University.
I do sexy shit.

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Here's why i'm entering the world of the skillful, tactful pick up:
I NEVER PICKUP THE WOMEN THAT I TRULY DESIRE: The 9's and 10's, not just in looks, but the complete package. You know, the one's I deserve.

Chicks dig me, but they are almost always 7's and below, so i get play, but well within my comfort zone.

I'm perceived to be a ladies man, but inside I know that is not entirely true until I can conquer the most beautiful woman in the room.

Friday, I officially bought into this concept of breaking down all these interactions into bite-sized morsels. Cajun, thanks to your work on TKTTVIP, I am confident that there is something to all this. I also read "The Game" and that helped as well.

I will not be attending any bootcamps and I will sarge alone, but I will faithfully report my interactions out on the town and see if we can make sense of my current "game" or lack thereof.

This is a solid base on to which we can start our relationship.

Current Status:AFC

But first I want to know you guys are out there. Once I receive some love from this community I will post my Friday night interactions in its entirety with all associated PUA Jargon to make it as tasty and digestable as possible.

You dont Deserve shit broseph. Hows that for love from the community

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You dont Deserve shit broseph. Hows that for love from the community [/quote]

Out of courtesy i'll help you out, your name should be "Driven." That was a freebie. But thanks for the tough love, i guess. Friday night was interesting man, I had a beautiful girl in my grasp and I let her slip through my fingers...

The basic point where to start is that if youre being C&F... I would say that your cockiness is on overdrive. Let a little go of your ego... Otherwise, you might get few women but in the end your unbalanced C&F will drive them away.

Less cocky and more funny = A joker = ends up in LJBF = bad.
More cocky and less funny = Ego-maniac = No game, girls run.
Cocky and funny balanced = Ahhh... Heaven!

Good luck.

Edit: Feel free to PM me if you have any questions !

Thanks Jim, i'll definitely consider your comments. Although being from NYC its gona be hard to shake that cocky aura, but i'm all ears....

Here's my breakdown of the first set on friday night.

I go out with my man his girlfriend and her friend. We hit up this lounge in NYC, in the lower east side. I had been watching some Keys to the vip on youtube so I was already in that attack mode and telling myself
"F it" all i need to do is holla at these ladies. Thats what I did.

I get to the lounge and we are in line. I get rejected even though my man owns the spot cus my license is expired, i keep it moving with no fuss as to not stir any attention to the fact that i'm in situation that mostly 19 year olds get into.

As I walk into the pizzeria next door I spot to ladies, a 7.1 and an 8.5 with one male. I know my plan. I step out of the pizzeria and begin chatting up the dude, who immediately befriends me and says he can get me in with the two girls. I introduce myself to the two lovely ladies and we step inside.

I follow them downstairs, let the two girls go and immediately see this 7 with beautiful breasts..seriously though. I lean in and ask her if she saw this huge dude walk by, she laughs and says no and asks me if thats my girlfriend behind i said no, "are those your girlfriends behind you?" she laughs and says no "are you here for the birthday party?" i say how do you know its not my birthday" she rolls her eyes and says "oh thats a pick up line, but if it is happy bday." I said thank you and told her that I would be back to claim my dance with her, she says "maybe." FYI Also she's sitting with about 4 women and I don't acknowledge anyone of them

I bounce and chat it up with some women using the hey "have you seen this big ass dude walk by" opener, it seems to be innocent enough and was met with genuine concern for the whereabouts of my big ass friend.

I go back to the room with BodaciousBreast woman and im stalling watching her dance a bit and not having much to say cus the music is corny and so i can't cash in on my word and claim that dance.

I see her in the bathroom, ignore her, and throw some paper away without even acknowledging her. (i know, shady shit.)

Next time i see her, I say "what's up with my dance and she points to some dude and says "I gave it to him." I didn't even look at dude, I just said "aight then" and left. gay. I appear unaffected on the outside, but on the inside I had nothing slick to reply with, it definitely stirred me to now have to deal with some cat and the prospect that maybe I was silly enough to think she was feeling me, lol...

Hey, I see a great PUA future coming in your direction ! Just for the slick responses.. A great style would be practicing the game all the time, to your friends (yes, even the males..), basically to everyone around you.

I will point up a few things from your post with some good response examples .

"Is that your girlfriend behind you?"
-Oh no.. Already hitting on me are you?! I ain't just a piece of meat, and certainly not that easy

"Oh thats a pick up line, but if it is happy bday"
-I ain't picking you up!, you are just too full of yourself...

As she was sitting, PM me for some funky routines on seated sets. Plus, a great way would have been approaching another babe next to her to bring up your value and make your target notice you, then eject and go for your real target.

And the bathroom part, just walk over and ask for the time, when she answers just say something "Oh, its time to dance!" and take her hand and lead her to the dancefloor.

When she said that "I gave it to him" you could have said "Well I never said you could dance with me.. You just had that kind of a look on your face "

But now, good night.. Outside running around all the day and now at the computer screen..! Damn I need some sleep!

Good luck !

So what i picked up from your response is that there should be no lull in my game, I should always have a slick response that keeps me light and fluid and not too invested..ok, ok.

I have three more sets from that night but should I be posting my journal entries in another part of this forum. Where should I post to get the most feedback, analysis and suggestions?