Don't care. Still answering them. Maybe it will help someone else, since you obviously needed some quick answers.

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2.) That's up to the woman. Women are generally programmed to find testosterone attractive. The physical attributes that signal high testosterone production in a man are broad shoulders, distinctive jaw line, and, basically, not looking like a 12 year old boy. Now, as a new, modern breed of woman, I'd say we are attracted to men who look like older men, not necessarily older men.

Also, we're attractive to older men who look younger. It's like, he's responsible... but he's aging like a pro. It's the Sean Connery effect.

I can't give you a specific age for all women as a limit. For me (a woman in her early twenties), 18 is as low as I'd ever consider going... but probably not getting below 21 ever again. As far as a limit the other way, 35 is the tops.

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1.) Yeah, if I think he's sweet or cute or has some redeeming quality where I don't want to watch him crash and burn from the other end of the bar.

Really, I help guys out all the time, and sometimes, they don't even know it.

As far as my friends, I don't really think so. When I'm out with friends, it's about them.

2.) Good question. It's physical proximity or vocal tonality/deep rapport seeking before I've clearly sent out a stream of IOI's. If you get all up in my grill before I'm ready, I'll think you're creepy.

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Dude, are you about to Dangerous Liaisons her, or do you really want to give this girl a good shot at a connection? If you have anything less than honorable intentions, leave her the hell alone.

Why would you memorize routines after you've already known her?

Let me ask my colleague about this one because this sounds a little tricky for some reason. And I'd actually like to know what your intentions are with her before I tell you what to do. It's like handing a gun to a toddler.

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Fine. Go ahead, be that way. See how much I care...hmmpphhh

Glad ya did.
I appear to not have worded my question about the AFC/rAFC appropriately
but I liked your answer none the less.


Thanks

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Why don't you reword it so I can answer what you're really asking.

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What are your opinions on women that say they are madly in love with you and that is the reason for them sometimes flaring anger out at you over something stupid. I understand that with love comes comfort and that may have another part to do with it. Is this a legit reason for getting too angry at me?

If so how do you make women feel better, I just don't understand :-/

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Hey Zip, pleasure to see you offering a service like this, here's my question:

Is there any easy way for a girl to accept your reality which is loving multiple girls at the same time? I have 2 GFs at the same time and it's hard to keep the drama low, they're always bitching about me having another girl, but in "The Game" Style sees like 7 girls at the same time, how the hell does he do that?

What I have been doing is to reframe them into my reality and to make them to accept the sort of person I am, it isn't effective at all but it works to a a certain extent and I need help since I might be getting a 3rd GF.

I did have a vague line of reasoning in there some where....
And for the life of me can't really remember what it was, other than being under the impression that having an AFC in a group setting was something to be avoided.


yep, clear as mud. Hunh.

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i think he's trying to hit on you

Zip,

I am 19 year old boy in becoming to be a man. One of my main attributes is my youth. I look just like my age. I have a babyface but I've been told often that I seem older due to the way I present myself as well as how I talk.

I'm aspiring to learn many things in life and carry on many crafts for my soul and well-being. Seducing is one of them. I have been reading books such as the Laws of Seduction and Body Language books by Allan Pease so I can become the ideal-lover that I know I was meant to be.

I have fantasies in having a relationship with a mother. I have love mothers and I love knowing and understand women in general. I feel that women are extremely interesting to know but I find single mothers to be very attracted nor I don't care about any given age.

That being said, I feel like I'm inexperienced. Inexperienced in general with love and life. I have only had 2 sexual partners and I can get around with having a conversation but never pass the heat of the moment. One of my biggest faults is that I get involved with girls and women who are in relationships. Potentially, I know I could've ended several relationships but I feel too bad and guilty if I were the reason that a relationship would end. I believe in karma and I would just hate it if I put myself in that position with my girl.

Now that I told you a little about myself, I'm seeking for your advice in this dilemma that I'm facing...

Two of my closest friends, possibly the only ones that I consider great friends, are two girls that I have connected with in the last two years. Often people question my sexuality because these girls are drop dead gorgeous and I don't seem to do anything about it. To say that I'm not attracted to them would be a lie but I value their friendship too much that I would not want it any other way. Except for one.

As I keep getting a closer bond with these girls, I'm building more of an emotional connection with one of them. She is a 22 year female with a two year old child. We became friends as she was pregnant and she named me the Godfather of her son. I treasure the boy tremendously and I play with him and nurture him kinda as if he was my own. Often I delude myself and say that I'm not attracted to her but I know that it's not true. She knows it too.

Last week, we had a very intimate conversation. She then said she loved me. In what way, I'm not sure, but then we started rubbing each other and holding ourselves just thinking. The next day, she needed to talk to me so we talked about the tension that we have for each other. We both can't deny the attraction but the problem isn't about that.

The problem lies that she's been with someone for over 4 years. He's also the dad of the 2 year old boy. She can't stop thinking about me but she also loves the man that she has had an on-going struggling relationship with. Both have matured together and he's planning to move with her within the next year. They're so much potential plans that I would feel too horrible if I were to mess it up. We often talk from 11 p.m to 3 a.m and we had a long conversation about this. It was very unattractive conversation and when we meet we act more as friends then people with tension. I kinda hate it because it seems unnatural.

She's not the only girl on my mind but she's the only one that exceeds my fantasies. I'm seeking your help as to what I can do. I'm looking for a relationship. One that can help me grow and gain experience as a human being. That's why I can't seem to let this particular girl go. That and I often see her. Zip, what should I do to take this out of my mind! I don't feel like this is healthy and I don't want to play with fire on this situation. My main priority right now is to progress to a man that I want to be. I feel like part of growing and understanding being human is to have a delightful relationship with someone who you love. Am I wrong? And if I am, what can I do to grow?

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jesus...christ...i hope u aren't serious.
srry man but i think no amount of seduction advise will help you with all the implications of that one u need a different kiind of advise

dude, you're 18, i so want to help you but since you posted in this thread i'll let zip, but if you dont mind my comments.... this is what human interaction is all about, you interact with another human being, bond feelings, and.. that's it. go out there and interact with more humans, ok rant over back to zip..

I love human interactions. I have many of them on a daily basis. I'm not really talking about bonding and how to bond. Reading the Law of Seduction has made me ponder about the situation...

I think women want you to conquer them. In some instances, what's wrong feels right. I would love to seduce her but I'm wondering if I would lose chances to by not interfering with her current relationship. It goes against what I'm about. I told her that and she said "You know you could and you choose not to because of what it can do for my future. I respect you for that."

I just love flirting man, and I guess it kinda pains me that we aren't flirting like how we use to. She was good flirt too. Thinking about it, I think I thrive on flirting and a girl's feedback. It's just such a big turn on.

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Zip whats your favorite genre of music?

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