I am about to reveal the secret to being an excellent PUA, and to be honest its no big secret at all. The way to internalize confidence and strengthen your inner game. Thanks to Chief, I had some sort epiphany while on a 7 day challenge (reccomended by Chief) to stay positive about everything.

In the past 50 hours I approached over 75 women, got about 38 phone numbers, 5 kiss closes, and 2 lays. All women I approached I had a blast with, there was no AA, fear of rejection or insecurity.


Fucking amazing I know. I even approached a little during the day and I have ZERO daygame. lets begin with my epiphany.

BASICS OF BEING A PUA:

The art of pick up is probably 10% routines/ pick up method/canned materials, 5% looks, and 5% body language/vocal tonality. the other 80% is PURE mentality. I shit you not. I have completely eliminated all negative thoughts from my reality. What I am about to tell you to do will change your world. You will never let a girl conquer you again. This is my shortguide.

HOW TO ACHIEVE INNERGAME EXPLAINED AS BEST AS i CAN:

First of all, from this point on, whenever you have a negative thought, a worry, stressful images or thoughts, think about something else. Anything else that's POSITIVE. Admire the beautiful women that are walking about, reframe yourself immediately. The pretty trees, the cute babies, how fucking awesome sex is, your favorite song, just anything positive. Because chances are, those negative thoughts you're thinking are about yourself and involve hurting your selfesteem and confidence. Your inner game. So, from this point on, whenever a negative thought comes across, think about something positive. IMMEDIATELY. This is hard work and will take a lot of mental focus. But stay sharp and keep doing it.
You will about 50 times better about yourself and about 200 times better about life in about 2 days.

By replacing negative thoughts and feeding yourself with positive energy you are not giving your brain a chance to feed yourself anymore bullshit that isn't true about yourself. FAILURE, REJECTION, and NEGATIVITY no longer exist in your reality. In my reality. My brain does not recognize it and yours wont either. Those failures and rejection that I use to acknowledge are now opportunties, compliments, and positive feedback. It's not that I cant win the girl over, I just havent done it yet.

Do you see where this is going? This excersise of constantly reframing yourself to positivity will change your reality. It will strengthen your innergame so that the outside world will not effect your reality. Infact, the outside world will be effected by your positive energy. You cannot lose if theres no rejection, fear in your reality because there is no more negativity.

Now to create a reality that you want to live in is the easiest part when you subconsciously start to think positively about everything. When you started eliminating the negativity that you think, you can only interpret things positively. Well now its time to interpret things the way you want and apply yourself to the situation you want too. The way your innerself would want too using your innergame. When you think about it, after you can achieve this state of permanent free flowing positive energy, you will be invincible in the pick up field.

Before you explode on your girlfriend in a wave of chode emotions, eject from a target because you stumbled on your words, before you even enter the field, step outside of your shell-like body and watch things from a 3rd perspective. What you're target does, what you do, have complete control over the direction of the energy. Always make it Positive. When you stumble on words in a Pickup, you and you're brain both agree, "it's a good thing you stumbled on your words or else she would've raped you by now". You also agree with this statement because you saw it from a 3rd perspective. This is creating your reality. Once you can eliminate negativity, replace it with all positive things, you can redefine your reality. Actually these positive thoughts will redefine them for you.

I can't explain this any better, and feel free to ask questions and I'll answer them the best I can. It's fucking amazing though I feel so great. It doesn't matter what pick up route you choose, SS, MM, DYD, DAVIDX, Shade, ect. In this mentality anything will work for you.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Good advice man, I hope a lot of guys find this useful. From my experience, the more someone fears rejection, the more they actually get rejected. Likewise, the less they give a shit and just do it, the better (and more frequent) their results are. Inner game is THE most important thing and I can't stress that enough... everything you believe about yourself is projected outwards through your body language, your tone of voice, and the way that you deal with people in general.

If you believe, and I mean REALLY believe (whether it's from past experience or not), that you can get any girl you want, you will actually start to speak and act in ways which will make that a reality. It sounds like some cheesy self help shit, but it really is true... I'm quite introverted when I go out by myself and to be honest I'd be more than happy just to walk about and not talk to anyone... however, if need be, I can switch on the PUA instantaneously by simply thinking of good times I've had with girls. If I wake up one day and I want to get myself a girl, I'll go out, see one I want, and I'll think about that good stuff - all of a sudden I feel happy, I'm smiling and I just go do it. Everyone has their individual trigger, something they think about which enters them into this frame - you just need to find yours, and it's not exactly hard to do.

Yup. It starts by eliminating negative thoughts.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

wow very nice post, im glad i read it.

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You kids cant compete, your to slow for the beat

Nice post, great advice.

Guys, this shit is in fact for real.
I've been doing it for some time now, and its lifechanging beyond anything I've ever experienced before.

Yarr. Glad to help.
I feel like this is only the first step too. I look foward to finding out what else is out there for me.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

This post is very intelligent. Posts like these have really helped me in my journey.

Hooooly shit dude

I'm GREATLY impressed by both your mental transformation AND your sarging results.

What did you find was the most difficult negative thought to reframe, and how did you do it?

How did you reframe AA?

I'd probably say thinking about the ex or what I lack. Whenever I was alone or horny I always thought of her and I'd start to think about how she's probably fucking other guys. The second I even picked up the slightest thought of thinking about her I automatically reframed to something else like enjoying the scenary, all the awesome people in my life, all the sweet girls in my social circle that are always there for me. Instead of letting these train of thoughts continue I immediately reframed to anything but these bad thoughts. After a full days of positive thoughts I felt really great about myself and I internalized this concept that I'm better than that and I won;t give her the power to upset, hurt, or effect my inner game.

Now this when I smashed AA. I felt so positive about myself and if my Ex cant effect my self esteem and inner game, how the hell are these random chicks going to do it? I took that power away from them and I started creating my own reality in my head. I took a step back from only taking things from my own point of view and started looking at the social interactions i am in as a whole. It's almost like a video game where I can't lose in. No matter what happens I dont acknowledge or recognize failure or rejection and therefore I cant get hurt. I hope that answers your question.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Something i have been doing for the last few weeks, and i cannot remember a single time of doubt or sadness thru this mindset.

Want a more in depth explanation of this method? Its actually called the Law Of Attraction, the power of positive thoughts basically guys. I would HIGHLY recommend everyone to read or watch "The Secret - Law of Attraction".

Its lifechanging...... I hope this helps you become the best person possible!

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Its all a game!

Alright the Secret is a little bit different... its almost cultish.

Im talking about actually changing the way my brain processes information. I control my frame and the frame of others with positive energy and avoiding all negativity.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

great post!!!

definately something i will be working on

Very interesting! Thanks for the insight

Great post, this shit really helps.