PHONE SILENCE. how to eliminate it?? what to say??



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:44 am 
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If you ever experience silence tell her the truth.

"So do we/you really have this little to talk about?"

This way you show her you have alot to say, but expect her to speak or entertain YOU. As someone mentioned earlier, gives her the whole burden.
Meaning that SHE will be the one having to keep working to hold on to YOU


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:16 pm 
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Really like the above post....good advice...!!!

Tips that i can give is that as soon as i start on the phone i try and put the pressure on her a little bit to keep me entertained and this method is good for when there are silences!!

Usually i find there are no silences if i start the conversation off in a good jokey mood...especially if itsa the first time you've spoken to them

Somtimes i start off with as soon as the conversation starts

"Right...you got 3 minutes or 3 strikes...if you make a good impression i'll double it" something along those lines

Then ill make a joke " here are the ground rules...everytime you have finished speaking to avoid interruption...you have to say over....Over"

Then as soon as she starts 2 speak i'll but in " only 2 minutes left now" as a joke and then her first reply they always say "Over" and i always laugh at them

And if there is silence...i'll just but in " right you've got 2 strikes left or this conversation is over"

Usually gets a laugh..

Hope this kind of helps....it has worked well for me


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My #1 favorite tool for this problem - BE BUSY!

Don't make the mistake of being bored on the phone. If you are bored, you will be boring. Be actively doing something, anything. Whatever you do, don't focus on just the conversation. Whatever you're doing at the moment should be the priority and your conversation with her should be secondary.

Clean up your room while you're on the phone. Let her know what you are doing too. You'll finally get a chance to clean up and you won't become overly-focused on your conversation.

If you sound like you are casually doing something while talking to her, she'll sense it and it will lighten up the conversation. If there's ever a silent moment, just let it be. She'll have to assume you're just changing your bedsheets or getting your laundry together. PLUS you'll be preparing your place for when she comes over to mess it up again!


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:10 am 
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Things I use as backups for when the conversation dies is play games like the word association game, ask rapport questions. One question I like to ask to build comfort/rapport in a big way is ''tell me a secret. It can be any secret, big or small, but it has to be something that no one else knows - just me and you.''

Also I love to use the cube, thats a great one, you can make it last as long as you want and go into as much detail as you like. I don't think ive ever cubed a girl and not had them as putty in my hand afterwards. Its dynamite if you can do it well.

Just dont let the conversation die, and be prepared to hang up if things start dying down :)


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 6:35 pm 
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just go with

PUA: you are rich aren't you?

HB: ah? wtf? why?

PUA: phone calls are not free and you are silent. I know I am worth a lot but come on, at least spend it right.

HB: hahahahah blablablabla

there you go :D


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My #1 favorite tool for this problem - BE BUSY!

Don't make the mistake of being bored on the phone. If you are bored, you will be boring. Be actively doing something, anything. Whatever you do, don't focus on just the conversation. Whatever you're doing at the moment should be the priority and your conversation with her should be secondary.

Clean up your room while you're on the phone. Let her know what you are doing too. You'll finally get a chance to clean up and you won't become overly-focused on your conversation.

If you sound like you are casually doing something while talking to her, she'll sense it and it will lighten up the conversation. If there's ever a silent moment, just let it be. She'll have to assume you're just changing your bedsheets or getting your laundry together. PLUS you'll be preparing your place for when she comes over to mess it up again!

A lot of girls actually use this technique....maybe that is why we are known for talking on the phone so long. haha I know that I can't sit still when I talk so I naturally start cleaning or doing something. Go take a walk or something and notice things around you. If there is a silence then talk about something awkward you saw while you were walking. Even if you saw it 5 minutes ago while you were having a good convo, she doesn't know the difference. For instance, if you are on a walk you could say: "There has been this news helicopter circling around me for about 5 minutes now...I must be on the news or something."


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Very good stuff here lads

Totti;; 8)


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You could throw in some C&F. Try something like...

PUA: Hey, I gotta tell you something cool!

HB: What?

(PUA hangs up phone)

HB (calling back): I lost you there what did you want to tell me?

PUA: Oh, right (hangs up again)

then, as long as it's in good humor she'll call back and will be laughing which usually brings about conversation starters.

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