Zip! is that a mirror in your pocket.....

jokes aside... i know you keep saying that at times looks don't really matter for women... but being totally and completely honest.. would you ever find a fat guy attractive.. like... 350lbs... all the charm and charisma in the world?

I have. Yes. Once. He was not 350 but he was a big guy, with, literally, the best personality I've ever come across. It never worked out, and this guy is now my Best Friend.

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Hi Zip

This one is real and is happening to me...

A girl at college looks at me for quite a long time (more than 6 months) and gives lots of IOI's like hair, preening and feet/body pointing to me. Then, a friend of this girl listens to me in the hallway saying "oh there is she(her name here)". I'm sure she told her, girls do this haha. Since this happened (3 months ago) she started looking (she looks everyday at every chance but tries to be discrete by not looking directly or pretending she is looking at something else) even more and giving lots of IOI's - I could tell you stories. Her friends also look at me. This girl is known for being extremely picky and has dumped all of the most "cool" guys.
I have had little chats on groups she was in. We exchanged a couple of words only and one day I walked into the male's bathroom an she was there. She became red and really embarassed. Started saying "sooorry" and laughing a bit. After these facts the IOI's became even more intense.

In college parties (2 until now) she looks at me as well. And in one of those parties she saw me with two girls on my arms and looked at us with a very subtle "what's happening?". Again, she might be trying to play with me.

I think it's relevant: I have many friends and also I'm always surrounded by woman. And I am good looking. And when I caught her looking I hold eye contact but she breaks it when she notices she was caught. Lately i've been smiling as well.

What is more possible after all these months?
1)They are just fucking with me and saying "that guy, hihihi, he must like you"
2)She likes me?

haven't gone through this entire thread yet....don't know if I am suffering from information overload or intimidation (probably the former).... but I'm getting the distinct feeling I'm in over my head.

Be that as it may:

1.) Is there an age limit in either direction most women will find acceptible

2) How do women feel about sniping (a guy comes up to you and sez something possibly thought provoking and moves on)


Thanks

oh yeah... kinda forgot 2 other questions floating around my head

1.) would you or your friends ever help an AFC in the field when you are sarging.

2.) at what point do women find guys creepy ( I know the stereotyping).
Is it being too pushy, incongruent body language...what?

I definitely think the way he presents himself gives off that awesome vibe. Guys like James Dean and Marlo Brando had the same thing going for them too but don't you think there's something more to it though? I was watching the MTV Awards and the pop that he would get whenever he showed up was amazing. Most people watch Johnny Depp movies because he stars in it.

I think it's interesting and amazing how unattractive Tom Cruise has appeared to the masses over the years. People went crazy over Interview with a Vampire because of all the good looking men that played in it. No one has looked at Cruise the same ever since he got into Scientology.

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how do i make a girl want me when she has outstanding self-esteem and a virgin with no intention of losing it?I want to get into her head and i also would like to know if she's attracted to me?How to get her to open up when we talk on the phone? how do i memoize the routines and i have a huge problem with breaking under pressure i star fumbling and sound like a retard?

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gentlemen, I'm in the airport getting back to NY right now, hold on tight.

I'll be back in action very shortly. Thanks for your patience.

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What you perfer, skinny guys or well built guys?
and what u think about shaved head

Not certain if it's been asked yet.. but..

How important are looks in particular, and how does acne affect the way you consider a man for sex?

zip,
Never mind. Found my answers.

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Today is not your day
Tomorrow isn't looking too good either

Now, I'm gonna get all existential on your ass.

Do we, really, ever find our answers?

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LOL.....

Never for life, liberty and the pursuit of hedonism. Or at least until your subconscious kicks in and smacks ya up side the head, screaming "Hey! Stoopit"

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Today is not your day
Tomorrow isn't looking too good either

Looks are important if that's all you've got. If the personality makes me not care or even makes me find someone physically MORE attractive, then looks don't matter as much.

They are important, and acne does affect the way I consider someone for sex. Again, if you can make me attracted to more than just your face, I probably could get past acne.

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I don't "prefer" either. I like them equally the same. I like vanilla, I like strawberry... the physical makeup is just a different flavor.

I really like lean, very strong guys. You know. Wily with a six pack.

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