Okay guys, i havent posted for a while but this is what i have concluded so far. First month or 2 of purposeful pickup went by really great. My confidence levels were soaring, i was opening very often and with success. Things were going great. Then, for w/e reason i stopped going out that much and was too lazy to look for girls to open randomly. After about 2-3 weeks of not even a single cold approach i realise that my AA came back and i was less confident. For example today i was walking about 30 feet behing a girl that was close to a 9. She was wearing TNA pants or lulu lemon or some shit. I even came up with a sweet opener on the spot " are those TNA or lululemon, my sister has been bugging me for them for a while..."which is better", "is she too young to wear them" blah blah". But i just could not catch up to her and open. I was walking behind her for 10 min and i was just telling myself what a pussy i am right now. So anyways, its almost as if im back to the start again. So my suggestion is once you got the snowball rolling, DONT STOP, make sure you open at LEAST 1 set per day.

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If you stop the snowball it's going to melt in the sun

HMMM, I think you're okay as long as you keep social it's cool. I mena I can stopped sarging for bout 10 days and came back to it fine.

Actually sometimes it's good to have a break and just refine yourself; so you come into the scene again with a different angle and perspective on things.

Agreed. As long as you don't completely shut yourself off it isn't too bad. At one point I wasn't able to make it out for over a month, but I hung out with friends and talked to people at work, or in stores I'd go into, in order to keep my skills up.

I find if I don't take a bit of time off now and then, I start to lose my perspective and so it's nice to take a week or so and remember what you're in this for, what your goals are and not stray too far from that. Sometimes you can find some enlightenment that changes how you think about the whole concept and you end up greatly increasing your success because of it.

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thanks for the responses guys!

I just started to sarge and to be honest I love it. I actually enjoy talking to people now. I was an anti-social but after half way though "The Game" my mood is so different. I really enjoy everything and being the man of the men. I would say just at least just talk to random people, you don't have to sarge to stay on top.

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