We already know that an alpha PUA says "no" more than he says "yes," just like any high-quality woman would. A man with no value would be desperate enough to take any woman that crosses his path. A PUA with high value, on the other hand, actually has standards.

What are your standards? Other than physical beauty, what do you look for in a woman? How would you describe the woman or women you would actually want in your life? Write it down here! It's good to actually have your goals and thoughts in writing if you want to manifest them into your reality.

I'm looking for a woman who is... (in no order of importance)
> Open-minded
> Adventurous
> Respectful of others
> Caring
> Unselfish
> Compassionate
> Passionate about something
> Feminine
> A little weird in some way
> Openly bisexual
> Likes music and dancing
> Self-aware
> Doesn't hold grudges
> Allows herself to live in the moment
> Not a communist

And that's my list for now. I'll add more things to my list and/or make changes to it if I find that I am looking for something more or different later.

I'd have to say on my list would include:

*Intelligent
*Open-Minded
*Respectful of Others
*Independent
*Caring
*Socially Savvy
*Likes to dance and listen to music
*Outgoing
*Witty
*Has a passion in life
*Some minor quarky thing wrong with her
*Taller than 5'7

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

I know it when I see it, but it's not real specific.

I mainly look for a certain...feeling. An idea of who she is, what she's about. An impression, maybe?

There are a few qualities that I can say I want, but I don't do anything specific to find out if she has them:
Trustworthy, Independent, Has Money.

Oh, the last one isn't strict, but I've noticed a large difference between people who are solidly middle class or better, and people who are definitely poor. Their attitude towards money, and the spending of it is usually completely different. Also, I don't want to have any thoughts that she might be a gold digger.

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And I lift my glass to the awful truth
Which you can't reveal to the years of youth
Except to say it isn't worth a dime

ha

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.

-A look in her eyes that seems to go through you
-Sarcasatic
-Playful
-Sometimes mean
-Morality
-Tells me what I need to hear instead of what I want to hear
-Doesn't lie (jokes don't count)
-Willing to get my back in a bar fight (seriously)
-Doesn't feel she's too good to eat at Waffle House
-Drive to succeed
-Hatred of hippies
-Drug free
-Watches Sumo wrestling
-Has her own life

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When you masturbate, God kills a kitten... so do your part to help control the overflowing pet population.

My woman must be:
- Beautiful
- Passionate
- Flirtatious
- Fun
- Intellegent

:LoveJunkie:

A girl who is:

* Feminine
*Sharp witted
* Classy
* Independant
* Can dance like a stripper (v. important)

-outgoing personality
-understands my sarcasm/humor
-appreciates me
-gentle, polite nature
- speaks her mind, but not rudely
- knows how to cook
-knows how to booty shake
-non smoker
-financially stable and goal oriented
-can make a decision ( i hate when women are indecisive)

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Even the wise man dwells in the fool's paradise.

* easy going and chill
* adventurous and spontaneous
* not dumb - she doesn't have to be really smart, i don't think i'd want a girl smarter than me (unlikely anyhow)
* mature (not in looks of course)
* doesn't play games (at least not once we're in a relationship)
* independent
* well off financially
* shares similar tastes and aspirations in life
* very affectionate
* great in bed (no dead fish please)
* doesn't have kids and doesn't want any soon
* non-smoker
bi-sexual would be a big plus, but is not a requirement

-doesnt have an std or sti
-smart, but not as smart as me.
-lives within an hours drive from me
-asian or white
-kind personality
-not a total bitch
-passionate about something

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

ok, here's my list

*kind
*passionate
*loving
*honest- (wow i cant believe no one else said this)
*feminine

lol... I don't think you know what you're asking for, man.

lol, I was wondering about this particular subject but it looks like someone beat me to the punch!

I have a good set of standards but I haven't fully analyzied on why I like them. So more likely, I'll probably be keeping a personal blog for my own developments.

The girls I tend to go for are the ones that are normally shy, intelligent, goofy, geeky, or just crazy(in the good way). Now if I could only find some that are into pro wrestling and video games....I'd be such a happy man.

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"What can I say? Can't help that I'm attracted to geeky women...they have some kind of passion about them that is attractive." - Me.

Ok here's mine.....

1. Aware of her looks (takes care of herself no matter what, whether she feels she's old etc).
2. Someone who knows she's sexy and uses it.
3. High value doesn't give in unless it's too the best.
4. Intellegent and enjoys thinking in deep
5. Can dance well.
6. Fun and willing to be daring.
7. Sexually adventurous.
8. Slightly evil.
9. Has ethical values.
10. Humorous.
11. Outgoing.
12. Friendly.

- Dirty little slut.

That is all. Call me, bitches.