Since I cant post this anywhere else. Its kind of long so Im gonna try to stay on the highlights of the story.

I attended a night club last night with three guys witch I rarely know. When I got there this girl grabbed my arm and we started dancing. We exchange typical coversation (Name, Occupation, Age). I added a little flare to my answers to sound interesting. After 2 songs we headed to the bar so I could meet her friend who was with a guy she just met. We again talk a little bit. I complimented on the way she was dressed (gave her the twirl around thing). She asked me if I came with my friends. I replied "yes, let me go check up on em" (push-pull) I went back to my friend and chilled looking at the dance floor. Then she came back and grabbed me and we started dancing again this time we elevated to kino she was feeling my physiche, and butt. I was rubbing her body, I started to inch closer to her face and started to kiss her. We kissed a couple of times than we sat down, I founded hard to keep conversation going being that I did not find any common ground interest stuff. Her friend summon her to the bathroom (girl talk i guess) she came back sat next to me she started showing pictures she had in her digicam and we stayed on that topic for a good 4 minutes. Her friend decided that she wanted to leave (I guess the other guy was not pulling hi weight) I tried to stall her by saying she can come over to my place but she said her friend drove her to the club then we departed. When we departed it felt kind of awkward. She text me that same night with "thnx for a good night"

Thats the end of the story. What could I have done to establish a better comfort level. I founded really hard to keep a conversation going to keep build my rapport.

By not trying to impress her and just assuming a state of rapport.

you seemed like you already built enough comfort to be able to kiss her. By going back to simple chat after making out is counter-productive. I think you should have done a little bit more push-pull or bait, hook, reel, release (especially with the kissing).

Start kissing and elevate it, then take it away from her, she'll come back to you and there won't be any need for "comfort." You'll already have it.

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One Love,

Bacardi

thanks for your support guys. Im kicking myself in the butt for this. I am infamous for this I tend to make out with girls in clubs plenty often and number closing. But the next day, Im just a distant memory to them. Thanks to this forum I have learned that being good looking its not enough to get a girl in bed with you, so now im trying to work in the other aspects of the game.