| Went to a different bar 2 nights on the trot with a pal and over a drink the first night I was talking to him about dealing with women and how we're going to handle situations together. After a couple of drinks a group of girls we knew showed up (a 4 set), and one of them was one I'd only met a couple of times before but spent the night together drinking as a group. I'd been flirting with this girl before but as a true ALFA and she wasnt biting. She gets hit on all the time and its always by your typical AMOG and so she's kinda resistant to that shit, being all dominant will only lead a guy to be her friend. You gotta go deeper with this girl.
So they're outside finishing their smokes (we we're sitting by the window thats how we saw them), and I said lets go to the bar and to a get drink and I also said to act like we havent seen them yet. They came in and got a drink at the other end of the bar and coincidently sat at the seats we were at. We knocked back a tequillia each and went back to where we were sitting. As we approached I said hi to the one I knew the most and as I was about to say hi to the other 3 there was another girl there we knew with her fella, she was just about to leave and I chatted to her briefly before I went to say hi to the other 3 girls. The one with her boyfriend left and I turned around to great the other girls. I asked the one I'd been flirting with before how she was doing and she said with a puppy dog look on her face that I'd been ignoring her. I asked when and she said at the bar she was trying to wave at me. Sweet! I said Im sorry and must have missed her.
Anyway we were talking to the group as a whole and I was totally ignoring my target girl, the more I ignored her the more she wanted to get involved in the convo. I negged the fuck out of her and she just kept coming back for more. She went outside for a cigarette and when she came back in I said "you stink!". The whole group laughed as she looked shocked, then I said "have you just been outside for a fag? cos you fucking stink". Basically I was just negging her silly but everything I said was working. My body language was spot on, only talking to her over my shoulder etc.
She then said "who's coming to the bar with me", and blatently looked at me. Everyone was silent because no one wanted to go to the bar, I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to get her alone but I played it so well. I just remained silent until eventually she said to me "will you come to the bar with me". She wasnt getting me that easy. I said I'd go to the bar with her only if she fluttered her eyelids at me. She was like, "I dont know how to do it", obviously because she wanted me to just say "ok come on then lets go anyway", like a chump. But no, I said "thats a shame, you're on your own then sweetheart"! And with that she was all in my face fluttering her eye lids. We went to the bar, got talking about some intimate shit to do with her personal life, it was going very well. We had a tequilla together and just as I was about to say we should go out together sometime and ask her for her number my pal showed up and started blabbering away. Oh well. Still, the whole night went on like this. When ever she thought she could wrap me round her finger I just flipped it right round in her face. I didnt get a chance to ask for her number because we all left and were gonna go back to a mates house. She got in one car, I got in another. My pal decided he wanted to go home so I didnt see her again that night. Thats cool though, it left her wanting more!
Last night was another bar. This really hot chick came in who looked quite like my ex. She knew all the bar tenders and so did we so we got introduced and started talking. I played it the same way. Only spoke to her over my shoulder as though I wasnt interested. before long she's telling us she's 23 got a boyfriend and moving into a house with him. I totally distroyed her boyfriend by saying she's crazy to be doing that at 23. she said he was living in a batchelor pad right now and I said so he's just a rich boy she was sucking off. I negged, it worked, I told her she looked like my ex and got talking about relationships. I destroyed her boyfriend some more until she finally opened up and said she sometimes wonders if she could get better. BAMB!!!! that was it I knew I had her. I said she must get hit on all the time so surely she could find better if she had her doubts. she said she doesnt get hit on much. I said its because most guys see a hot chick and feel intimidated and so dont even bother to approach. She loved that, I was basically saying she's hot, guys get scared but not me and Im not afraid to tell her she's hot but at the same time did it in an indirect manner. She was looking into my eyes we spoke for ages. then my bar tender friend came over and started talking about when they were together. THEY WERE TOGETHER!!!!!! That just fucked the whole thing up. I totally lost interest. I could never get with a girl he had been with. That just wouldnt feel right. When she left she kissed me on the cheek and I knew by her look she wanted to see me again but I didnt even care now. I layed down all that groundwork with the hottest chick in the place and my pal had already been there!!
God damn!
Still, the practice on both nights was text book material. 2 of my friends were telling they couldnt belive how I was playing the women. They thought I was gonna get a slap by the way I was talking to them but to their amazment they were getting deeper into conversastion with me.
Awesome!!
Long message but fuck it
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