Hey RedMole,
It's hard to say whether girls know what they want, or just respond to their instincts. I think it depends on the girl, but if I had to say, for the short-term girls may respond more to passion or fall for someone's charms but in the long-term they will tend to date people who are their "type" because they realize that they are incompatible with other people. If you take the parallel situation, a guy might want to fuck a dumb, busty blonde even if he says he likes smart girls, but after a few fucks he probably will get bored or he will have too much control over the relationship.
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Femalepuafried, I have a question for you:
In my experience, what a woman says is attracted to isn't always the same stuff she responds too. Attraction isn't a choice, Right?. My ex-GF told me about how she loved nit, clean cut guys. Now she is dating a grunge guy. Men have it too, most of my friends say they want an intelligent girl. But when a dumb busty girl shows up, smarts are left behind.
So, Do you know what are you attracted to?, or you just feel the attraction when it comes? what do you think other women do?