So me and this HB have been flirting for a while. I ran everything and it worked. Thing is, she is on the verge of leaving her boyfriend for me. On wednesday, we are going to go to a carnival (not my suggestion, she really wants to go so I said fine) Two of her friends are coming, a guy and a girl, both of which think I'm awesome. How can I use this carnival? If it was just the two of us it would be easier, i know. Any ideas?

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If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

Are the guy and girl who are coming along together? Because seeing them happy together will put a suggestion in her mind about you and her.

Even otherwise you can use them to your advantage, some girls like showing off their catch.

Not much to say here, I mean this isn't much different from other group situations is it?

No, they aren't together. And the thing is, no one knows about me and her except for well, me and her. Everyone else thinks we are just friends and until she decides whether or not to leave her boyfriend for me, she wants to keep it that way.

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If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

Well, first off I'd stop playing silly games and pretending to be her friend for everyone else. Just act the way you act and if she's interested, then she's gonna act accordingly, otherwise, if she's playing these games, then it's just gonna be complicated. I'm not saying to make out with her and fondle her in front of other people, just don't act differently than you normally do, don't stop kinoing to keep up appearances, don't treat her differently, cause then she'll be the one calling the shots and she'll be the one that gets to decide when something is cool and when it's not.

As for the carnival, the fact that people are coming along can add to the fun and excitement. You guys will be doing stuff together most likely, but when you do things like mirror mazes, or haunted houses, or the ferris wheel, etc, you have opportunities to get seperated and that's when you ramp up the kino, pull her close and kiss her passionately. It's a thrill being so close to getting caught and she'll love it, just as long as you don't get caught, or if you do, you just laugh it off and smile. Make sure you go on the ferris wheel and that you're gonna be above/behind the other 2, so that they can't see you and what you're up to.

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cheers, thanks a lot man.

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If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

Err...What is this about "until she decides"? She IS going to leave him right, like, right on the verge of it, tomorrow-ish, right?

If her friends that are coming love you, get them to join you on a subtle boyfriend destroying mission. You can also guide them to saying how cute you two look together. Just get her friends on your side - she'll pay attention.

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-That's my two cents...

Well said sir

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the whole thing with the bf seems sketch to me. If a girl has a bf and I need to go out with her to find out I do the bf destroyer.

I feel sleazy doing stuff with a girl that has a bf, once she makes the decision her bf isn't right for her, then I decide if I still want to pursue her.

How would you feel if you had a gf and she was sneaking out with another guy.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

But the thrill of getting caught and such will give you an edge so really go have fun but I don't see this girl as gf material

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