hey guyz, i know this sux to say but i really need help on this hopeless situation.
look, i am from a conservative race and religion(but im not like that).
now the prob is that im at my AFC stage rite now, and i have one-itis.
i cant get this chik outa my fukin mind!
anyways, this chik is also from my race and she completely hates it if she even gets a hint that a guy is trying to flirt wid her. i dont know how to approach her and wat to do.
this gurl does like guys, and i need her to get comfortable wid me. plzzzz
help.

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Dude I think everyone is going to give you the same advice. Move on! Once that situation happens. It's almost impossible to get past. It's like a mental block or some crazy shit. So you're better off just finding someone else. It's happened to me and I'm sure most other guys around here.

What is your relationship with this girl? How long have you guys known each other? In what capacity? Have you approached her before? How have you approached her?

You say you come from conservative race and religion, so you'll have to act within the norms of your race/religion.

You say the girl hates when guys flirt with her. This is great because now you know what NOT to do. Go under the radar. Don't hit on her. Neg her and ignore her.

Does your religion view sex and dating as something wrong? Most major religions do. Try not to build a relationship with her built on religion. She will associate you with religion and will most likely turn into a GBF (gay best friend) - not fun.

go up to her and ask her a opininated question so it doesnt seem like your hitting on her gett a conversation going and 7-8 minutes into it start to hit on her
when u first approach you dont immeidatly hit on a girl u dont want ot get them uuncomfoprtable

If you have one-itis then you must see her often. If this is true then there is no reason to move to quickly.

So I am also going to assume you have not spoken to her yet.

First and foremost, she will be able to read right through you if your inner game is not up. If you are AFC and you want to 'win' her, I would suggest you practice on lesser women first. This will prepare you to take her on.

Open her, as suggested, with her opinion on something. No matter what she says, neg her about it (make sure she laughs). Say thanks and move on.

Now you have an open invitation to speak with her again. How do you do this? You can use that same neg again.

At this point you can start rapport and continue on with the game. Use kino, increase attraction, and she will be yours.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

Im a little confused as to the whole situation here. Though I am going to relate it to a problem I had a few weeks ago.

I met this girl out one night and she was displaying IOI's like there was no tomorrow and I ended up getting her number and a kiss-close.
I met up with this girl a few times and as I did I started to get a little too focused on her. Some might call it a mild case of one-itis with a few symptoms of neediness. A few other guys started to tell me I was focusing too much on this one bird and not enough of others, so I decided to act.
I went out and did a little sarging, met a few new girls, kiss-closed a few and sparked re-interest from a few girls I had gamed but for one reason or another flaked on. And although in the game it recommends fucking a dozen girls to get over one-itis, I just needed to show myself the amount of girls I was missing out on out there. Once I did this I started to see the sense of neediness and 'one-itis' disappear and the relationship I had with the girl I had previously been so focused on improved dramatically.

I may have carried on a little too much here but I guess the point I am trying to make is, If you game her mystery method style with negs, and creating yourself as the target, as well as being funny and confident you can't go wrong. But also demonstrate to her that although you think she is cool you dont care that much if your relationship goes to hell in a handbasket because you will have other girls that will undoubtedly be all over you anyway. An attitude of 'I dont give a fuck' Is always the way to go I think, without being too over the top.
To be completely honest I dont believe race or religion matters to the extent where you should make it an issue. Although you have the same sort of upbringing it is clear that it isnt an issue for you or her so why make it and issue?

There is my rant buddy, hope it helps out.
Good luck x

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well i'd like to give a gr8 thnx to Giacomo, Valence, flow and El Tiburon.
And for those of u whu actually want to know wat my bakground is,
Then i'd say, that me And her r Muslims...differnece is that i had always been open minded coz my dad was like that too. and where as she is concerned i heard that she's grown up in a more conservative environment than i have.
(We're both Pakistani, Not Middle-Eastern)
well, i'm sorry guys that i dont have a reply for wat happnd, coz i didnt really read thru this forum since quite a while and i plan on approaching her tmrw.
Anyways, thnx again guys! i reeeallllyy Appreciated it.
Peace Guys

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"The first few seconds of when u meet her, always matter the most"
-A study from cambridge university