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i posted this post a few weeks ago (some ppl responded saying im in the lets just be friend zone, some say i she just wants an alpha male and i need to be more aggressive, please let me know your thoughts)
" so i kno this HB8 for almost a year, we started out as friends, never thought i would like her. but recently i fell for her. i told her, because i feel like if i dont, everything i do, she would take it the friend way. she told me she wasn't ready, since the finals and summer is coming up, we wont see each other for 3 months during summer. and i kno she had sex with this guy twice a while ago and likes him, but he never called her.
for a while it was awkward. but i handled it well, i acted like nothing happened. but recently, i started kino attack, she likes it, but sometimes she tries to avoid it, sometimes she would return some kino like stroking my hair. anyway, we got closer recently. we talk and joke like before, sometimes we would hold eye contact for like 30 seconds or longer.
so last night, her roommate's bf is here, so she came to my room to sleep, coz my roommate wasn't here. she does it alot before i told her i like her. so i thought she wants me, at least a little, since she knew i like her and still came in. she went to my roommate's bed first, then came to my bed to watch this movie with me. she leaned on my shoulder, and i stroked her arm and hair. but every time im ready to make a move she would turn her back on me. then she just said shes tired and went to my roommates bed and fell asleep. this morning, she was in my bed for 5 minutes, sleeping while i was up, then i lay down, but again, she has her back to me, avoid eye contact, or talk about school.
i dont know what is going on, i feel she likes me, does she want me? or she just still see me as a friend? is it that she doenst want me, or shes just waiting for my move, should i just grab her face and kiss her? or is just dont wanna get into anything before we leave? TONIGHT IS THE LAST NIGHT before we leave, so please! help out!! "
nothing really happened, i got her really aroused that last night, we were both a little drunk, she was breathing heavily, i was stroking her face and neck, but she just jumped up all the sudden and ran to her room saying shes really tired.
she has already left for east coast home for the summer. she texted me yesterday and i ran some game on her, and she seemed happy and ask me to promise her to talk to her online today.
Sounds like there's potential there for more, you just need to be the man and pull the trigger when the time comes. You waited too long when she was getting turned on, you should have escalated further and gone for the kiss. If you don't make that move, then she's gonna keep running away and then things are gonna get weird and not happen at all.
The 3 month break could be really good, because it is like an extended frame break and you can use it to not talk to her TOO much, when you do create sexual tension, so that next time you do see her, you keep it going and kiss her. Don't ask, just get her turned on, then put your hand on the side of her face and kiss her. If you make an overly obvious move, like brushing her bangs aside and running your fingers down the side of her face, she's gonna know just what you're planning and she may stop it.
In the mean time, keep running game on other girls and get better with women so that when she does come back, you have the skill and confidence to get her.
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