ok I was just visiting a friend for a week and will go back to visit him in about 6 weeks or so, while there his girlfriend set me up with this, which I now think is the best way to meet girls...through other girls, anyhow. I was unable to full close this girl for a few reasons, she had just broke up with her BF, I was unavodably cockbloked, She got too drunk and I just ran out of time, But she was REALLY into me. she saved her number in my phone without me knowing and texted me a few times. my question is how can I continue building comfort and attraction through text messaging over the next 6 weeks? should I just not say anything to her over this time period, and wait till i go back or drop her a few cool stories here and there? what do you guys think

While it is a little more difficult to sarge via text - with the lack of body language and having someone infront of you, it is still possible, hell it can often be more fun as most people are a bit more open over text. Why? Because if you don't like something someone said you just don't reply.

You will easily be able to plant ideas in this girls head, start out with a bit of flirting here and there, nothing too intense, then you wil slowly be able to move to more graphical scenarios.

- SC

Keep the texting to a minimum, you don't want to build too much comfort because building attraction and seduction via text is much more difficult due to the lack of voice tonality and body language. Text her, just not all the time. Remember to keep them fun, LIGHT flirting and don't get too heavy into sexual innuendo as it comes off as creepy over text often, especially when you're not able to have in person contact.

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i was just going to post something similar, but i'll latch on here.
so i f-closed this girl 2 weeks ago and have kept in touch, but due to her situation we cannot get together much, still haven't since. i'd like to have her be an occassional fb, but how long can you keep the attraction going for without actually seeing each other?
and what are some more techniques to maintain attraction over the phone and via text?

also, this hasn't happened yet, but suppose she doesn't hit me up with a random text or call for a while - should i and after how long?