I am taking dancing lessons to help me in my inner and outer game. I'm trying to decide if I should try to fuck an interesting cougar that dances with me. I think we're getting an interesting vibe for each other. Her face is like a 5 but she has curly read hair and is very sexy. Her body is pretty hot... I would give it a 7.

My body is yelling FUCK HER when we dance, she smells nice and moves in a sexy way. I think it would be pretty easy to get her if I don't mess up.
I think I should approach more or less direct:

Say something funny (maybe a bit cocky) in her ear while we dance
Fluff
SOI

As for the SOI that's pretty easy I think, maybe i'll tell her how I like the color of her hair and say it makes her sexy. Fluff is also easy.

What I need help with is the funny part... any ideas?

Here's the good and the bad of the interaction:

+ I keep holding on to her or to her hand between dances and she seems to be into it. I also pull her closer to me when we dance.
+ She asked for my name and introduced herself.
+ She squeezes my hand back when I do it.

- I'm not talking to her when we're not dancing (don't know what to say)
- Not projecting my voice when I talk
- I'm not doing enough eye contact when I talk, though I have held it a bit longer a few times to create tension, which I think worked.

I'm also worried of negative social proofing by for fucking a mature woman, I won't want to be seen all around town with her (medium sized town). I don't want her to become atached and neither do I want it to become public.

your last statement changes the whole direction of my reply, why are you embarrassed to be be associated with an older woman? is there something your not telling us about her that would make you not want to be seen with her?

i can't argue the point of how women would feel about seeing you around town with an older woman... but i can guarantee that if she is not a beave' then almost all guys will see it as a HUGE positive social proof

I would say yes fuck her.

You being seen with an older woman will increase your value. Don't be embarrassed. I was 19 when I took out a cute 26 year old Japanese foreign exchange student out for sushi. We were classmates in a golf and a music history class. I was seen around her at the mall. The next class, females i didn't talk to started asking me questions about the up coming test so I made new study buddies.

I didn't get the value system until recently when I started reading up about becoming a PUA. So yes, but keep your sex life descreet!

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"Let it flow"

- Andeezy

She's very interested.

You probably don't have to work too hard to get it.

You know what your negatives are--correct them.

Fuck the living hell out of her--or, rather, let her fuck the living hell out of YOU. She's been around long enough to have experience and know what she wants and what guys want. Between that and how hot she is for you, she'll squeeze you dry every chance she gets.

Be seen with her in public, looking her absolute hottest.

Poof--proof.

DO not pass this up.

Great thanks for the feedback!

What can I say to her while we dance to break the ice and set her up for my SOI?

I notice she is trying to be playfull between dances, which makes me nervous since playfullness is my BIGGEST sticking point.

Any suggestions are wellcome...

Oh, and i'll post the follow up to this, next class is on monday (today is thursday)

While dancing, tell her how good she looks. Tell her her hair looks really sexy today. Or lean really close and whisper that her cleavage is distracting the hell out of you. If she responds well to that, maybe even press your crotch against her a little more, or slide your hand further down her back so it's half on her back and half on her ass. If she responds again, ask if she wants to get a drink after class. Bounce to a bar...or a restaurant...or your place, or hers. Don't forget the occasional neg.

I got no advice re: playfulness if that's your weak point. That's definitely something very important to work on.