Hey all,

I found out about this whole 'game' when I come across Neil Strauss' book - The Game. Since then, I've been reading as much as I can. So many things make sense now. This may be a bit long.

I'm going to try these moves on individual girls to start with caus there's a few HB 8s and 9s I know already and wanna go after. One of them is a mate from uni and until the exams three weeks ago we didn't really chat. I got her number from her a few days before lectures ended and we chatted for about an hour on the phone two nights on the run.

The next night she rang me crying that she'd split with her bf. After that she started telling me all these different private things between her and her bf. She is usually pretty private so she must trust me.

Exams come around and we met up two days on the run for exam revision, went for food, etc. Now I realise there were some serious IOIs from the get go (e.g. running her hands through my hair, flirty bumping me away when we were walking) and some shit tests too (e.g. look at all these beautiful people in the sun and I look like this). I have to admit I froze up for those tests. I didn't really know what to say caus I wasn't sure if her and the ex were just having a big fight and didn't wanna make it obvious I like her.

After the exams I told her to come round after telling her the parents were away for the weekend but she made the excuse that she had to see her own parents who were back home.

Haven't spoke to her for a few days. I text her every other day with bits about stuff I know she's interested in. E.g. yesterday I told her the staff showing of Sex and the City was on and they need more people to watch the film for problems (I work part time at the cinema) but she didn't reply to that one.

I'm gonna text her again with "Hey u, I'm luring sexy girls to my house with sweets. do u prefer skittles or m&ms?" but other than that I'm not sure where to go.

not knowing all the details, i have a feeling that you may have failed some shit tests. that would be why she's making up excuses to not meet up.

i'd re-game her. open her, wait for her to show IOI, then you can start showing interest. during conversations, i would think of a cocky/funny response to every one of her questions. try to anchor her. give her a nick name from a inside joke only you two know about.

lastly, i wouldn't worry about her bf. pretend he doesn't exist or try some bf destroyers when she brings him up.

you've been reading material. now all you have to do is put it to use.