so im reading the the game and this happened to be the first pua forum i came across. im sure im like the cookie cutter noob, haha, but yeah, gotta start somewhere. 20yrs old, just moved to san diego, ca. don't rly have big problems being social, just want to be more effective. seems like theres a lot of good info on this site for me to go thru, iv already picked up a decent amount from lurking. but yeah, guess thats it.

Hey if you need any good help just post up any specific questions I can help you with i wont mind answering it no matter how hard it is?

ok so how about a few opinions on this. theres this hb7 i work with, f closed her the 2nd time we hung out, and we have messed around a few times since. but i recently just confirmed some suspicions that she is messing around with this other guy at work who is like 35, shes 22, im 20. kinda weird/creeps me out. im kind of at a stand still, like i know she is still down but idk how i feel about it, dont like that shes messing around with HIM. suggestions on what to do? just forget about it and keep hittin it, stop talking to her? after getting an seeing some txts exchanged between the 2 kinda on accident she appears to be rly into him, like always missing him, blah blah blah. my guess is its the novelty of him being older and w/e, he has a serious gf, probably going to be married soon, not rly looking to like fuck that up, thats just not me but yeah idk

and im not looking to like take it any further than a fuck buddy with her, but dont rly wana throw her away because it works out perfectly.

Hey. Are you sure all you want from her is a fuck buddy?
If it's really the case, should you care about what she does with that other guy?
Or did her actions with that guy change your initial expectations?

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this is a good point, and yeah i dont rly want a gf right now. i mean shes col and all but yeah idk, woudnt rly bother me if she was doing someone around her age, but this guy is like twice her age (found out hes like 40, WTF) just like creeps me out. also dont like the fact that she choose him over me a few nights back. i think its like too easy right now for both of us, n she maybe more of a challenge with him? maybe i need to cut her off??