And he dated this one girl and "loves" her well she cheated on him and they got back together but things weren't the same and things started fallin down hill from there. now she just wants to be friends and he is stuck, she is his one-itis. now my other firned john and i don't have problems with getting girls and we keep tryin to influence him to start shoppin around again and he'll feel better. but he won't take our advice, he just mopes, it's been about a month and a half now and i dunno how to get him outta this slump cuz his attitude drags us down when we are out lookin for girls. so how do i fix him and get him back on his game?

Get a FEW drinks in him and show him how much fun other girls can be. Being slightly buzzed, he'll be more receptive to this and more able to deal with it, as opposed to being stone cold sober. The intention is not to get drunk though, because then he's sloppy, ends up mopey again anyways and the whole thing is pointless.

Help him to realise (he has to come to the realisations himself, you can't tell him outright) that the girl has treated him like shit and there are valid reasons for not being interested in her. He is still "in love" with her, so you have to give him a reason to not be interested in her, but he has to realise them himself, because if you start badmouthing her, he'll just get defensive and close up.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

it takes time.

possibly introduce him to "the game" and maybe he'll realize what he did wrong.

Was your friend "too nice?" Is he a "push over?" Will he do ANYTHING for that particular girl?

It sounds like he got stuck on this girl hard. He probably kept thinking that this "girl" was the only "one" for him. Help him realize that there is no such thing as the "soul mate" and that he has about 70 years to live and he will probably interact with thousands of different women.

Or you could bitch slap him. Go out to a club/bar and take pics of what he's missing out on.

Realistically i'm sayin that it'll take time and everything will be normal.

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"Let it flow"

- Andeezy

well I can certainly tell how he feels weve all probably been there at some point you can try to introduce him to other girls trust me. People say they dont believe true love at first sight some say they do lets find out which one he is and try it out.

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KISS- "Keep It Simple Stupid"

Greatly Appreciated Everyone. We All Go And drink All the time But Normally it's At One Of Our Cribs With A few People Over, But Ima take him Out More. And The Picture Idea is great One I Can run The Picture routine while I'm Out And Two I Can Influence him by showing him my Fun Experiences. He can be a push-over at times when it comes to his crib and ppl wanting shit from him. but i think he has a confrontation issue. and thus he doesn't want rejection not just from girls but ppl in general.

Tell him to read the book....."Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins.