So I number closed, went on my first date. Everything went well so I asked for the 2nd date, and she answered with a yes and a smile. I told her to let me know when to set up for the 2nd date since she's a busy girl. She's about 3 years older, and since I asked that she should let me know when she's available thru text. She haven't respond...should I take it that she's insulted? I'm not good at going for 2nd dates as you can tell...so I really need experience PUA's help on this please. Thanks.

should have talked about something exciting on the first date, made her feel different happy excited something like that.

you can say "hey im going to this show this weekend, i think they still have tickets on sale if you wanted to go"

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I sort of did on the first date. I let her know there's this place I would like to show her, and she seemed real interested. By the end of the night, we hugged and there was the IOIs but I kind of let that go and was hoping to k-close on the 2nd date instead. Bad idea?

well dude you must be feeling PRETTY WEAK right now..Because you just hand over a whole bunch of power to the girl. Which means you dont make the decisions anymore she does so she controls when you have the next date and chances are shes probably not attracted to you anymore Just call her up and this time you set up the date... veni vini vici

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Yeah I know, I seem way weak right now. You're right, I'm gonna either set up a date asap or just simply move on to the next target. Thanks for being honest, it cleared up my head after reading this.

well you basically gave her a choose and option
you should have taken action by doing most of the dating plan

well hope everything go well for you and hope you learn for this experience

_Saiko

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you gave away power and control by allowing her to pick when.
But maybe she is just busy like you said.
It wouldnt hurt to text just to flirt, and see what her reaction is

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Well I certainly did learn from this experience. I'll be seeing her again later this week, perhaps I'll have to step my game up for sure? I figure since she's willing to go out again, she has to be sorta interested...any advice on getting over the hump with this girl?

well the first thing you need to know is that you need to set up the 2nd date right after the first one becuase she is looking at you and really likes you are after the date. You don't want to give her time becuase then she starts thinking about how you her on the spot but not in a good way becuase she really doesn't know anything about you. If she finds another hot guy then she will go for him. So first thing is to call her or txt her to tell her that you are the going to go on a date at this time. Because weman like strong man so be that strong man call her!!!

Next when you are on your 2nd date you need to standout from ever other guy. Like tell she something that you are proud of or what I like to do is talk about a funny party story to show her that I can have fun. But the goal in the 2nd date is to show her why should she pick you so don't hold anything back!

Good luck

Thanks, the twin. The first part I got right away as soon as I waited a day, I thought about that. So I set up another date, and she replied yes with a in a txt. But where I f*** up was I told her to give me a time to take her out (I've learned...). Thanks for all those who contributed, hell of a experience with this hb. But can't have the one-itis so I gotta step up or move on. Peace.