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pollykok
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:34 pm 
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Is it ok to tell a girl that its her turn to choose when we hang out.

This is because I feel like I'm planning everything and I'd like it for her to actually step up and contribute.
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That depends. How long have you two been hanging out?

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like 3 or 4 weeks.
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I don't know enough about your personal situation but by 3 or 4 weeks it is a good idea to let her choose. Make sure you make it clear that you are letting her chose and not starting on the path to becoming a doormat.

If she hasn't complained about where you have taken her however she may be happy letting you be in the leadership position or she may be stringing you along.

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I think you're overdue on getting her to plan things. After all, you're the prize- SHE should be the one trying to take YOU places.

Don't be afraid to make her work for your time a bit. Just don't go overboard.

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my dude you are so wrong If you hand over all the power in the relationship your only losing a girl can stay in a relationship with you only if she is attracted to you and being powerful is attracting so stay in power my dude and stay in control never give a girl power unless you wanna be her puppet and get pussywhiped hahaha.. gratci
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I'm a little confused about What kind of things you're planning that require so much effort on your part. Generally I do something that's real low key, like going out to a bar or hanging out at my place. There really isn't that much to plan in these cases, just a simple phone call and eventually the conversation goes to "I'm going to X, wanna come with?"

To answer your question, I would say don't sweat it. Like c_n12 said, if she's not complaining, don't worry.
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