im new to this PUA thing

i dont know why i am posting in this since most of you will probably hate me after i say what i need to say.

first off this guy is pathetic. from being on a lot of other forums, he is just an attention whore.

i have heard a lot of you say that you were in simular situations, did you ever, for one second, even consider going to a site like this and posting about how horrible your life is and wanting to end it? if so im sorry, but thats damn sad.

He isnt a PUA (i agree he could be, but only because anyone can, but he would have to do some serious looking into himself) he obviously doesnt know the first thing about it, he sounds like the typical AFC which at one point we all probably were, but he isnt trying to change, hes just complaining, i agree with the first post made in here by chris (your a good guy bro, and i think that your time would be better spent on someone more deserving)

I also see a lot of sympathy with him because he is unattractive. like being attractive makes it any easier. either you have game or you dont , i know a lot of really good looking guys that are just as fustrated when they go out, and its because they do the exact same thing this guy is saying he is doing, he just wants sympathy, and attention. dont feed into it, ive seen it all over the place.

i do want to say i am impressed with the empathy that most of you display though, although i feel you have been duped in this instance.

sorry if i offended anyone.

I completely respect your opinion.

That being said...... a post like this is very counter productive. Everyone starts at different points in their lives with pua. Some guys start at 14 and some start at 40. I really do not enjoy the member bashing going on. The fact is, is a member of OUR COMMUNITY has reached out for help. He may not see it as this. You may not see it as this. Its not like any of us are enabling him.

Some memeber look for the next great pu line. Some members look for how to lay a girl in a day. And some memebers look to completely renovate their lives. Can't we show the same respect to each member? I know this site, many members, books and the whole community have helped many members on this board. Why should resurrection be any different?

I can honestly say I have been there..... I have gone through several points in my life when I have just reached out for help, for answers, for friends or just for an ear willing to listen. It helps when someone takes a small moment of thier busy life to be there.

Good luck bro. I hope you find the answers and help you are looking for.

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Then im sorry but your bang wrong shows you know absolutely fuck all.
You really dont know what your talking about, ive seen dickheads on here post this and that about me, but they wouldnt survive a week in my shoes.

Alright dude gotta ask u this...if u think life sucks...y not end it? What are you living for then?

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OK I wanted to know if Daddy was right or not, so I had a look at a few other posts from Resurrection. It does seem that he's posting the same thing over and over (my life is shit, never had a girl, it's not my fault it's the hand I'm dealt, nothing can change etc.). A few people have responded to him with the same advice that I and others have responded with on this thread.

But to be honest it does looks like he doesn't want to know. Resurrection please let me know if you've taken any of the advice that you've been given on this forum to heart? From the posts you've made I can see that you think you've tried to do something, but from your posts it looks like you either haven't done it correctly, or are so wrapped up in your story (it's fate, it's not meant to be for me etc.) that you have ignored what people have been recommending.

For example on another thread someone was advising you to go out and have fun with you mates as one part of the pick up process. You did this, and then when an attractive woman didn't approach you, you concluded that it must all be shit and were back at square one complaining about your life. Well, the "having fun with your mates" instruction is there to put you in the right emotional state (happy, good energy, GIVING value and entertainment to people) any MAY make women notice you as being a fun person. However it is only one piece of the jigsaw. The woman didn't approach you as, if you know anything about male-female interation, this is the man's responsibility (hey, isn't life unfair? boo hoo!). Sure, you'll read posts from time to time where women do open men, but this is in specific situations, and usually with guys who have lots of game which is is somewhere you can get to but aren't at right now. YOU need to open the attractive women. This, again, is about taking responsibility for your life, which is totally opposite to your current story so may be hard for you to do. But, once again, you have to start somewhere.

This is a shame as what people are suggesting you should do it VERY good advice. But you do seem too wrapped up in yourself to be able to use it properly.

You really need to get out of you story. This may bend your brain a little, but be aware that your story isn't you. You might want to read what Eckhart Tolle says in the Power of Now about what he calls the difference between your life and your life-situation, and also I would recommend reading Byron Katie's Loving What Is.

In fact I'll set a mission for you. Do you feel up to the challenge? It's not difficult but will require you to actually do it and not give up. Here's the challenge.

1. Read those two books (Eckhart Tolle "The Power of Now" and Byron Katie "Loving What Is").

2. DO the exercises in Loving What Is - this is very important.

3. In general, be aware of what your thoughts are as often as possible, and the emotions and feelings that they generate inside your body. This is key. It may help to write down what you notice. Please note that I'm not asking you to change anything, just notice and record them.

4. Go up to five women that you don't know each day for a week, and ask them the time. Please note that I did not say hot women, just women. They can be hot, they can be ugly, they can be anything in between. But you can't have already spoken to them and you need to ask them the time. You can talk to them more if you want, but you have to ask them the time at least. And you have to ask five women, for seven days in a row.

5. And this is another key task - you can't put up any more posts about how shit your life is until you've done task 4. I would ask you not to do that ever again but I'm being realistic here!

Can you do that? Are you prepared to change, or do you want to stay stuck in your current situation? Do you want to prove all the people that are criticising you wrong? Then take up this challenge and show us that you're better than them. Otherwise they'll only be justified in their thoughts, and you will have done nothing to suggest otherwise.

Good luck.

Ive taken the advice given but it hasnt worked for me? Maybe I post the same old thing because I get the same old results

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OK I hear you but I don't think you're following what I've said. I said that you think you've followed the advice but it wasn't done in quite the right way.

One of the annoying things about pick up is that once you get one bit right, you realise there's another bit to do which you hadn't noticed before. It seems that this, in combination with the fact that you believe your sotry about yourself so strongly that you're not prepared to be open to any other possibilities means that you are self-sabotaging you chances before you've even begun.

Does that make sense to you?

Read the article after the video on this page (the one that starts "There are no new stressful thoughts.")
http://www.byronkatie.com/newsletter_may08.html

Once you've read it, ask yourself how this might apply to your life.

Also, do you want to do the challenge? Yes / no? You haven't responded durectly so I'm guessing the answer is no. Is that correct? Let me know.

Cheers mate ill have a look at the video link now, regarding the challenge check your inbox mate

You are a fucking moron!

Don't EVER tell a vulnerable person that they should end their life. Do you have any idea how many lives would be destroyed by that? At the very least think of his parents and how miserable they would be.

Everyone can make their life what they want it to be and he's obviously just venting his present state and needs time to grow out of it and realize his own power to find his dreams and goals. Do not fucking ever tell someone they should end their life. It's not even a society thing it would destroy so many lives.

- Chris

Quoted for truth. Ressurrection is in a bad place but his life will change.

Survival of the fittest. Don't be angry with DJ for something that has been around since the start of mankind.

You guys should really read some of his other threads. I'm actually surprised I haven't read any of his "none of this is my fault" bullshit in this thread, but I didn't read all the replies fully. However, maybe he is maturing after all?

Ressurection, a detailed field report of your night would help both us and you. That way, we can see where you went wrong and you can fix it for the future.

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I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

Dead serious inner game, perhaps other issues beside pick up. Women and picking them up should be the last of your issues if your life is in disarray.

Thanks Hobbit! (Haters, Gotta love em'!)

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Make the "Ho say no", remember fellas, a "ho" without any instruction is headed for self destruction!

Let them haters do their job, and you work their women like a job!

Don't talk so much, you'll make people hate you!

Dude, not to repeat myself but psychological help sounds like it would do you immense amounts of good. Look honestly seriously honest to f***ing goodness call a therapist none of us here can help with the kind of shit you have going down. It can help dude, I've come back from some horrible shit myself, it will help.

And 24 - 25? Come the hell on dude, my uncles are players, and we're a bunch of ugly bastards. We're all pudgy and bald. They're like 40+ I'm 22 and it isn't over for me!