on re-opening,
don't ask questions that can have a yes or no answer.
i hope that you have something to tease her on,
also i hope that you are not trying to create plans after you have met her.
put it this way 'contact details' are simply contact detials not some magical items that will get you in her pants
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next time before leaving have a reason to contact her, maybe to help to go shoes shopping -they never say no- or simply becasue she loved your company so much to hang out again.
as far as this situation goes chances are you have already lost her, but don't give up. you need to build attraction , maybe try the you are gonna go out shoe shopping line but don't want a repeat of last time, at this point you would phase in a past cocky/funny shopping routine. -contact me if you need one- don't invite her at first, later you can ask for advice.
My best advice would be to make her a good friend, so get fluff talking and drop the 'i think you'd make a great friend. i'm keeping you on my friends list' line,
Your response,
here is what i would say, -don't C&P this though-
'alright time, you had an amazing time it's not everyday you meat someone as modest and fun as me. you know i that I'm never happy with just plain 'alright' only the best for me, after all we've been though i think i'm going to have file for a divorce with you. I'm keeping the TV and the Dogs, nippy and rex, (-NB you could even make one the dogs name hers) you can have the couch. '
p.s. i know its hard for you, but its the best thing for us, we'd never get along. it's gonna take a lot to bring me back.
of course i'm assuming you have some rapport with her and attraction.
all the best , and male me on how you do or if you need anymore advice,
CHAT
cool trick i know