ok...wow this is really embarassing. my wing and i went to the mall today to sarge. we sat on a bench for like 10 minutes trying find sets to approach. i wanted to get a few warmup sets in before i started gaming. so i see a 3 set of nasty fat bitches...and thought that they would be perfect to warm up on. so i walk over at an angle...and say "hey guys...how do you tell someone that your not interested w/out hurting their feelings?" this is where i knew that it wasn't gonna go good. as soon as i said that...one of the girls laughed and one of the other one's was like "walk away" (i think that was a hint lol) but i tried to keep moving forward...so i continued (at this point, they all turned and i followed them for some reason, so now im behind them) "the reason i ask is my friend mindy is trying to set me up with one of her friends, she's cute but not my type...what should i say?" and the one girl said "i think you should get out of my face cuz ur giving me a headache" So i said "wow...this one's fiesty...damnit i forgot my leash i need to remember to bring it next time in case i come across another one of you again" (her friends laughed) and i walked away. I definately went wrong with my body language (obviously) but i wanted to get an approach in. second i think my opener came across as an obvious pickup line. third i think that they might've known what we were up to if they saw us on the bench. Wow talk about a real confidence killer...o well im going out tomorrow and trying again. tell me what you guys think. thanks

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If you can't attract a woman you are, by definition sterile" ~Mystery

Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude."
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To win you have to risk loss.
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The first impression I got when reading it was that they might have taken offense...as in they might have thought that you were referring to THEM when saying "how do you tell someone you're not interested in them". If they were in fact fat and ugly...they might have either taken offense, or seen right through you (which I doubt). I don't know ...I'm tired right now but that was my first impression from your description of the approach.

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i was thinking that before i even approached...but i figured i would try it anyway...i know that im never using that opener again...lol

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If you can't attract a woman you are, by definition sterile" ~Mystery

Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude."
Zig Ziglar

To win you have to risk loss.
Jean-Claude Killy

i have a feeling, that you were leaning in, did you mention a TC.
i think you need to check you body lang, + often the uglier ones have a stronger bitch shield, hence you will notice hots girls allways have one uglier or fat friend to hang around with. so they can protect them.


just dust off your shoulder and open more sets , try body rocking.
one world calibrate i'm sure you do just fine,
all the best

dude, you should not stock on it, it is good that you ana,ize what thent wrong, dont think much more of it. Nothing good thinking of negative things