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Hey guys, I was wondering about something but I don't think making a thread is needed.
I was talking to this girl on Myspace but then I took me around a week to reply to her last message. Since then she has never replied back. I noticed that yesterday was her birthday and I do want to comment on something so I can remind her that I'm here. I'm at lost at what to say though to get her attention. Do you think I should let it go?
ok, im a beginner with this whole PUA thing, but i have been online gaming for awhile. since i dont drive and dont really do the bar scene ive been forced to in a way.
you want to give her a reason to wonder about you, it doesnt even have to be positive, from my own experience negativity works better off the bat, then let the nice guy come out.
i dont know too much about what you have already talked about but hit her with a hard neg, tell her not to wear an outfit she obviously likes to whatever she is doing for her b-day. this does two things 1) it lets her know you care about her b-day (in a way) 2) that you dont care what she thinks about you, which is ALWAYS good, i dont care what anyone says. even if she tells you to fuck off, its allready blown anyway, move on, but i bet she will come back with a "why not?" at the very least, but more than likely she will come back with some smart ass reply, especially if shes a hb8+ which is a GOOD thing, any kind of emotion means you can get to them, you want the ups and downs, the next step is to have something funny for a reply, maybe some funny dhv story it doesnt even have to be that good. offer to help her pick something out, but you dont have much time and get her on IM then run the cube on her (i love that one)
i bet you get an invite to her b-day if you pull it off right, but DONT go if you do, blow her off. you want a one on one for a first with friends, unless you got mad good game. plus she'll want you more for it.
Hope that helped