I wasn't busy tomorrow so I decided to ask if she wanted to hang out. She said yes. I think she likes me cus she said once that I like you more than him don't tell him tho. Shes cool so I talk to her every day. I think I'm building to much comfort so I want to esculate to kino and farther of course. I was thinking a friends with benefits type thing till she breaks up with him and then just Fb's. How should I build kino. I have some strawberries in my fridge maybe turn that into something. I know she'll do it but I just need some ideas on how to build up enough kino and tension to make her want me enough to cheat. Should I do bf destroyer I don't really want to cus I was thinking I'll just let things run its course for that I know they won't last much longer considering she keeps being like I wonder if we'll be together next month and asks me what I think idk. So just tips on building the attraction kino I think the comfort is fine, I don't want to end up in the friends zone that wouldn't be good. So, I need to get more attraction more kino and then I need a good way to close. Is she going to feel guilty what should I do bout that.

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It isn't your perogative whether she feels guilty about it or not. You're only worried about her feeling guilty incase it ruins things between you and her. You don't need to concern yourself with that - if she feels guilty, tell her it's cool and give her space. She'll come back. Whatever you do, don't comfort her and tell her not to feel guilty and that everything will be ok etc... that's bullshit and will get you nowhere.

As for actually getting with her, she's displayed to you verbally that she likes you more than him. Does she touch you a lot when she's talking to you? I dunno what age you guys are but when people are younger, relationships for the most part are very short lasting and when someone they like better comes along all they need to do is make themselves available. If you straight up ask her out she will most likely leave him for you... however if she's more mature this obviously won't work. Give us a bit more detail on how you get along with each other.

One more thing, what the fuck is with the strawberries? You don't need a special prop to use kino. Just touch her when you talk to her. You should be doing this already anyway... all you need to do is go for longer instances of kino and see how she reacts, things like holding her hand, resting your hand on her lower back etc. Just think back to how things escalated with the last girl you slept with . All you need to do with this girl is escalate kino until you know she's getting horny for you then kiss her and go from there. Don't mention her boyfriend or ask her how things are going with him because it only reinforces the image of him in her head. If she mentions him, steer the conversation away and have fun.

well done homie

Ok, so like her bf came along cus he wanted to. And ya i know all i need is to build kino and as long as i keep from becoming a comfort pillow she will start getting more and more into me. I think she would rather just cheat on him and then break up with him later cus she likes him like friend to but i can tell shes not that into him. The main thing i'm trying to do is not become an attachment to her. That way she feels like she still has to get me. I'm starting to give her the you can't have me attitude but i kinda like you and I've gotten some feedback like. Today he went away for a few seconds and she started poking me idk. The main worry I had was how to get her to not be like what about my bf. But if she brings him up i'll just let it blow over and keep heading in a good direction for me.

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