Ok so I kind of shot myself in the foot here and I would like to know if there is anyway to salvage the situation. There is this HB 9 that I went to high school with who is now a hair stylist in my home town. On a side note this HB went to cosmetology whit my ex who is also a hair stylist and f-closing her would be a pwn to my ex but I digress. So I hit her up via myspace and shot the shit then ask if she could fit me in for a hair cut. Now picking up hair stylists is fun because you have a half hour to “spit game” and there’s nothing she can do about it.

So I go into her salon making sure that I have doted all the I’s and crossed all the T’s. The hair cut went well. I was cocky/funny and we had some good laughs. Its hard to pick up on IOI when a chick is cutting your hair but I was sure she was jockin. I ran good DHV stories about how I was dating miss thing from are high school and how I was living in LA now blah blah blah. When I asked her what she did for fun I got the typical oh nothing much I’m kind of a homebody response . Not wanting to dignify such a generic answer I didn’t dig much deeper. One thing that I had touched base with her about was drinking. She had told me that she wasn’t big on drinking, but I thought that’s what most sluts say so I put it on my “pay no mind list” and thought nothing of it.

Everything was going good I thought that this was a sure thing. I even made sure that I was her last client of the day. When the hair cut was coming to an end I asked her “so how many clients do you have after me” knowing she had none. I asked this question because I thought if she said one or two more it would be a clear indication that she didn’t want me to ask her out after the hair cut. However she said you’re my last one with a big smile on her face. So I asked her if she wanted to join me for a drink across the street after she finished up. Much to my shock she said no I don’t drink. Not wanting to look like to much of an AFC I said that’s cool they’ve got bomb food over there too. She shot me down and said I’m good. I played it off like what ever no big deal paid for my hair cut and left. This was about two weeks ago. I cant tell if she was putting me through a shit test and I failed, or she wasn’t digging me. I think it may have been the fact that I asked her to come have a drink with me after she clearly stated she didn’t drink. Well I’m going be going back to my hometown later this week and was thinking about sending a myspace massage asking if she wanted to get together for coffee. I’m not sure how to state this question of if its even worth talking to her again after I got shot down. Any incite on what I should do would be grate thanks for reading.

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ok she is a hired gun, so you know that she is payed to make conversation.

you messed up on being needy, you invited her. what you should do next time is run a simple routine
ie
Me - 'whats the bar like over there?'
her - 'blah blah blah good, nice this or that'
You - 'great me and some great friends, X the one i told you about earlier are going.'

then Cut and go into a new topic,
at the end you could of asked her if she wanted to come and join,







How To Fix this,
well you have never blown it, just made it a bit harder. what i suggest you do is formulate a story for that night that she turned down, put a girl in it get a jealousy plot-line running. Then run the example i gave above, and when you ask her say

'you can come, but on one condition'
her - ' What?' ...note that i have assumed she wants to come....
You - ' you behave , i know it may be hard rolling with my friends but play it cool'



and there you a have thread to tease her on when she comes to the bar.

The thing is I think she may not have went with me due to the fact that I asked her to A a bar after she told me she did drink. I thoght her telling he she didnt drink was a shit test

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'i don't drink' was an IOD, shit i don't drink and i still go out to clubs and bars. and yes it was a shit test, if a girl was to say to me i don't drink i would reply 'thank god, i can see you being one of those crazy drunk girls in the club' - then stack with the girl fight routine -mail me if you don't know it-


+ you then tease her on she can't handle her booze,
i think you need to convey more value.

all the best bro

Her saying she couldn't come because she doesn't drink is a definite IOD. She would have come and had a soft drink if she had wanted.