Okay so I don't really know where I should post this but I figured I would try here.

My first problem is that I sweat a lot. I always have. Especially in my armpits. Current ways I handle the problem include:

1) wearing undershirts under my t-shirts to absorb sweat
2) wearing way too much anti-perspirant

Any thoughts on how bad it is to be sweating a lot/have sweaty armpits? Any thoughts on how to do something about this?

One idea I had was shaving my armpits which would definitely reduce sweating in that region... but is that an acceptable style for guys?


And my other problem... I bet im not the only guy who has this one. A lot of times when im having sex I cum too fast. Any ideas on how to handle that? To a) prevent it from happening, or b) handle the situation after it happens.

I sweat alot too dude.


I also wear an undershirt, and by about noon (from I need to change my undershirt.

I also wear WAYYY to much deorderant, like.... people complain that they can smell me across the room, good fucking thing i smell good.


You just gotta live with it. BTW Shaving the arm pits make you sweat the same, but your deorderant wont work as well. I've tried it.

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Chill with the antiperspirant/ deodorant, when you apply to much it makes you sweat even more

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Lol SHAVE! or not only will you sweat but you'l smell it no matter what Deo shave it of and use deo on it and yes you might sweat but not the same way!

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ya, i sweat like a prisoner at abu ghraib, i still get women. don't worry about it.

Shorely wearing more laying would make you sweat more? Think about it.

If you shave your arm pits do you know how much that will sting? Obviously not.
Dont fucking do it, trust me.

And do you have to walk alot or have a job where you have to run around doing all sorts. If your less active the less you will sweat, so take it easy before getting to the bar or where ever.

In hot countries you'll notice people walk alot slower (to conserve energy and not overheat) take it easy and walk from A to B slower.

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Don't listen to Mozy fresh, shaving your armpits is a great idea. just make sure your deodorant is alcohol based. Seriously though, try drinking cold liquids while you are trying to talk to women. In bars i always have a beer in my hand, not so much because I want to drink ( I actually hate beer) but because it cools me down. Just get a big gulp or something.

im sure if you shave or trim your pits you wont sweat as much. as for the sex try changing positions more. if your going to your gf's or fb's or whoevers and you think your gonna bump some uglies you can wack it before you go.

i shaved my armpits once for bodybuilding, and it actually worked a lot for me, although it itches like a bitch when it starts to grow back in. I wear Axe stick deoderant and that helps with my sweating.

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Since hair traps odor, it is a very good idea to have your armpits waxed.

To last longer in bed, you should try exercising the PC muscle. If you do a search for 'multiple male orgasm' on google, that should help you. I have to say it works very well. Also, don't go all jack-rabbit on her. Vary the speed & depth of your thrusting. The reason a real dick is so much more pleasurable than the woman using a dildo is because it is inherently unpredictable. If you want to last even longer, think un-sexy thoughts. Like your groceries, the score from the game, SQL programming, you get the point.

But the best thing you can do is exercise the PC muscle. Even if you don't get good enough for multiple male orgasm, it will help last a lot lot longer.

Ok, shaving your armpits won't do a hell of a lot, and i's itchy for a while. But if you want to do it anyway, go for it. When you ask, is it acceptable for guys, who is going to notice if you do or not? No one. And if they do, they won't care.

Cumming too fast: Nervousness. That's the reason. Because you are posting this, it's obviously a concern of yours. And I would bet $100000 that when you're having sex, or ever ABOUT to have sex, you're thinking 'shit, I hope I don't blow my load too soon.' So you're already thinking about, which gets your brain working in that area, which WILL cause you to explode quicker then you may like.

Things to do:
- Have fun: Sex IS fun! Laugh about it, try new things, ENJOY IT! The more fun it is, the less nervous you will be.
- Think about something else: Now by this, I don't mean think about someone else. If you are feeling yourself getting close, try to distract yourself from this gorgeous girl you are entered in. Look around the room, see peer over and see if your bedside table needs dusting. Make a little jingle in your head about the condom wrapper on the floor.

And if all this fails, and you still come really quick, and the girl is left unsatisfied, get really good with your hands

Hope that helped matey.

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Thanks for the feedback guys. Definitely going to look into that PC muscle stuff. I also have an unrelated post in the Field Reports section that could use some hits!

Yeh, someone else hit it.. Fuck hard and fast-ish.. (not freaky fast) until you feel yourself getting a bit too excited, then slow down and take a new rhythm and try and get much deeper in her.. I like to think of the simpsons, veeery unsexual. In your slow time, kiss her, kiss her neck, her nipples.. Just use the time until you calm down a little then go again. The idea is to make the hard and fast-ish bit last longer and longer everytime, this way you eventually are in control of yourself.

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What a title!

In the UK there is a product called driclor, that stops you from sweating. you put it on before you go to bed, wash it off in the morning and you won't sweat at all that day (from the places you put it on, which should be your armpits).

I've tried it, it works excellently, and I'm sure you could hold of it in the States.

I also read somewhere that you take a shower at night before bed, completely dry off your armpits. Apply antiperspirant, wake up in the morning, shower and repeat. I tried it once, i think it worked but it might just have been a placebo effect. I dont sweat all of the time, but when I do it sucks.

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