Hi, I am 20 yrs old never have kissed a girl. Throughout high school i was completely shy.... I asked a girl out , who is my co-worker...i had fallen head over heals for her earlier this year she said no... this girl had callen me badboy(in a flirtatious way), would give me 2-3 seconds of eye contact, smile at me all the time, i could get into her personal space, but she had a boyfriend and i feel like i blew it when i told her i had a strong attraction to her... now i just want to become a PUA and learn to let go of this girl. Any advice for 1st approaches?

Your best bet would be to first learn the basics .. you lay the foundation

get a PUA book that explains terms and other factors..this way youll learn and you wont be lost reading things on this forum or hearing world and acronyms you don't understand.. I recommend you "pick up" a copy of MYSTERY METHOD : HOW TO GET BEAUTIFUL WOMEN INTO BED

I second the vote on the Mystery method.

Also, don't marry the first girl you fuck, please. Been there, done that. Its the dumbest thing ever.

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Haha...I was going to marry my first. Luckily I had to move and met so many others. I did altho marry like 5 or 6th gf i had...Big mistake...I put the pussy on a pedistoole. Youll get it man, anyone can do it, but you gotta apply yourself. Im learning the basics of the game myself and I feel pumped. I got Neil Straus' "Stylelife Challenge"...So far alot of it makes sense. Keep your head up!

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"Give all your life to one girl, you lose livin life with all girls"

"Life is like a football game, play the right strategy or fumble the ball...Play the game or get played"

Good luck with getting over oneitis and welcome to the forums!

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thx everyone I have started reading "the game" and I plan on reading the mystery method although i might have jump the gun a little...I have been spitting some game on myspace just to test out how good all of the material is and i must admit i am getting some results...practice makes perfect...

As much as everyone pushes the books. Number 1 method is to simply make an approach. If this is the first girl you've ever attempted for, that would be the first thing I would worry about.

Although I haven't read it yet, as rookie mentioned, Neil Strauss' new book seems to be promissing.

looks like you have a little bit of one-itus.
thats when you think about only one girl.
like she's perfect for you, and you wont stop until you get her.
i'm very new, but from what i've read, having one-itus isnt being a pua.