Whats the best way to do that? Saying it straight out? And in what context?

There is no way to ask a girl if she has an STD without completely destroying your chances of ever sleeping with her. It's just plain rude.

hahahaha thats a toughie.
hey girl are u a slut?
so how many stds u gotten whilst sleeping with strangers
i dnt think there is a way. without it seeming like a joke or completely offensive.

I have to disagree, you can ask this question in a way that is a DHV by first volunteering the information about yourself...

"Yeah, I give blood once every two or three months which is nice they test my cholesterol and for the really bad stuff. I also make sure to get myself tested for everything at least once a year. I think it's important to not only 'play safe' but just to make sure you know? How often are you tested?"

See? I first opened nonthreatening by talking about giving blood, then transitioned to talking about how I'm clean, and then it's only logical that I ask her. It shows that I not only respect her by telling her, but I respect myself enough to ask.

Being able to talk about, being open and honest, sex has always been a DHV in my mind. I always use this or a variation of it before starting a new sexual relationship. It's never disqualified me.

ooo thats good

even if she had an STD she is not going to tell you... plus this will ruin ur chances with her because it will make things awkward..

best thing is to wear a condom.. makes things very safe. my freinds a natural and his number with women is greater than 30. he wears one almost everytime and says he doesnt have an std. he has had one before but it was one that was able to be cured by the doc. i know because i had the same one. dirty college sluts...anyway he is my best friend and he would tell me if he had one...

anyway they arent called std's anymore they are called sti's for "infection" cuzz not all are deseases and some are curable..

Good one! I was going to reply pretty much the same stuff, so I won't repeat it

But I'd like to say that I too think that this is an important question to sak when you start a sexual relationship (gf, fb or anything you screw more often than once). Its just to be on the safe side, even a condom can rip if things get very wild.

Go off instincts.

"If it smells like shit, it probably is shit."

Basically if it looks funky (multi-colored or some shit.) Don't touch it unless you want it to burn when you pee

lmao there is no rite way to ask trust me on dat one

lol, rite is spelled Right and dat is spelled That.

The actual words are easier to type than the abbreviations because of the positioning of keys on the board, you are actually putting in an effort to sound like a bufoon.. and also there is a 'rite' way of asking, it has already been mentioned.

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What a title!

i dont think you can ever ask a girl about that (until a later point in the relationship) ZigMan had a good DHV to find out, but NO GIRL EVER!! EVER!!!!! would tell you if she has an STD! she knows it would be a huge DLV and would not want to put herself in that position and wouldnt admit to it until a later point in the relationship when she feels she would be safe

you may wanna try to get the both of you to go get tested at the same time. be like an ex called and told you that she found out she had herpes so you wanna go get tested, then talk her into doing it too. obviously this wouldnt work all the time, but give it a shot.

also if you cant find out just look out for sores and use a condom! (condoms = HAPPY SEX!)

Have to disagree with you here. There are still people our there that appreciate honesty and would and will tell you if they have something. And when you ask it this way very straight, you have a good chance of reading her reactions and know if she has a std, no matter what se actually says.

If a girl ever tried to hide an STD from me I'd smack that hoe and tell her to get the fuck out.

lol... What can you do man, some people don't know how to scroll up.

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wait... how do you scroll up? (jk jk)

anyhoo this goes back to what Diaz was saying i still dont think girls will openly admit to that early in a relationship

also, most of the time ppl dont know they have an STD until later, so she may not even know (i dont have the stats but i can pull it up if you want.)