True.. breaking up a great relationship is a moral crime. But remember that women will always go for something better if it comes along, so I would advise not to if you're only interested in bedding her. If you actually want this girl and you can break that connection with the BF, then by all means go for it. Just be prepared for the reprecussions of your actions. To break this up, you need to cause doubt without a direct assault on the BF and make yourself more interesting in her eyes. Just browse around the forum for ideas.

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depends on how long they've been together, if its not that long (few days, maybe a week) go for it, if its been longer wait. Most HS relationships dont last over 3 months.

I've had girlfriends. One has been taken from me by another guy.
I was upset. I got over it. I won her back. Then I dumped her.

There should be no moral obligations to staying away from a girl with a boyfriend. It's her decision, and NOBODY is tricking anybody.

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First of all, ignore all these people who are busting on you for being immoral. That's bullshit and I'm guessing that they are saying it because some chick cheated on them in the past. People in healthy relationships don't cheat. Period. End of story. Plus you are in high school... she's not marrying this dude. If he can't keep her then it's own damn fault and you hold absolutely no obligation to him unless he's a friend....... or possibly if he's crazy enough to kill you.

Generally my "boyfriend destroying" tactic is to totally ignore the subject altogether. Just run normal game and don't let her mentions of the boyfriend affect you at all. Don't bash him... don't praise him... just pretend he doesn't exist. Actually, just last night I had a girl sitting on my lap and as I pulled her shirt off she said "my boyfriend wouldn't be very happy with you right now." ...I responded by taking off her bra.

you guys with your morals are laughable.
fact is the really desirable women have boyfriends nearly all the time, not many hold out for mr. right. and they like AFCs buying them dinners while waiting for the real man to steal her away from him.
furthermore the boyfriend / girlfriend relationship is meaningless. if there's no ring it's fair game IMO.
all you do is simply be better than her bf - be cooler, funner, make her feel happier, do not be a supplicating little chode. then sit back and let her choose, don't force yourself on her, you are simply presenting her with an option, it's up to her to decide if its the better one.

-CT

ok, I know you already got a bunch of responses, but this is a topic wich i have a pretty strong opinion on, so here are my two cents.

I compltetely agree with the two guys above me. If the girl really "loves" her boyfriend (which at that age I can almost garantee you that she doesnt), then no matter what you do, she wont cheat. On the other hand, if you run your game and she responds well, then its fair game. If she seems like she would cheat on her bf, then she probably will, and it might as well be with you.

Here is what you should ask your self: do you want a LRT with her or just an F-close? if you actaully like this girl and want an LRT, then you have to remove the BF. If you just want an F-close, then I see no reason why you should make them brake up. Just do your thing, keep it discreete, and let her go back to her BF after that.

If you do the whole "moral" thing, and just game single girls, then you are gonna be waiting around for a LONG time, because atractive girls are taken most of the time. You cant walk around being that hot and not have a bf. Before, If a girl told me she had a BF it would usually make me back off. Now, I just assume all girls above an 8 have a BF, and most of the ones i've met do. Morals are over rated. Do your thing.

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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 6:58 pm


Do you guys even read the date before responding to threads? It's way over a year old. I think he doesn't give a shit anymore.

I'm sure he went through a lot to pick up the girl and make her his gf. Think about how you will feel if you gamed her and a better pua came and took her. but if you're a heartless guy and really don't care.. by all means use some bf destroyers and get your girl.

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If she likes you more than her boyfriend that's not your fault. If she cheats on her boyfriend with you that means shes not a very faithful girlfriend. At the end of the day if she is an unfaithful girlfriend the relationship is going to end, whether its you or another guy that helps the girl be unfaithful doesn't matter. In fewer words; go get her and don't feel guilty about it.

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