Hey guys, need a little help.

How do you cope with physical closeness problems? I mean, if you're sitting at a table, how do you do kino without coming off as weird?
What is the way to smoothly re-sit, this time next to her?

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What if you can't reposition neither yourself nor her? I mean, if you're somewhere very crowded? How do you do any touching?

Tnx for the responses,

Carpe Diem.

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To sit next to her "smoothly" find some excuse to leave the table. Bathroom? Then when you come back, just sit next to her.




As for kino without the possibility of repositioning, I'd say look through the technique section. Palm reading, variations on the cube, etc. all work pretty well.

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Steal her spot.

I had forgotten about that one.

What C-DUB's talking about is when you walk over to her, tell her you have something cool to show her, and get her to stand up, then sit down in her spot.


Works well with a group, because you can then just continue talking to the rest of the group like nothing happened, however it's not so great if you've isolated already.

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Do some cocky and funny, "hey babe come to your daddy" or " I feel like there is a gap between us..." and be serious then when she says something like really? Just point at the space between you two.

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naw it's more like "give me your hand", then give her a twirl, and sit down in her spot and laugh your ass off.

if its to crowded and u cant get close to her take her hand and say lets take a stroll to find a quiter place. how bout just simply touching her arm when u talk/ say something funny/ watevs. any contact is good contact. if ur too far to even touch her arm then wtf r u screaming at her from a few meters away or what

Tnx for your input. I have improvised yesterday actually, re-seating myself next to her, explaining simple social dynamics theory (seat vs seat = enemies, opponents; while seat next to seat (or sitting at a 90° angle) = friendship, cooperation, connection).

Carpe Diem.

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+1, i love doing that!! haha

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Just put your hand on hers while talking. Key is not to look at where you touch her, because that implies you're asking for consent. After hand you escalate to arm, back, neck, etc...

Have you ever seen South Americans or Italians pick up? They get very close very quickly.

When i meet someone for the first time, or go on a first date, it is much easier to assume physical closeness from the very beginning rather than work your way towards it. If i just picked her up, and im changing location with her, i will take her arm in arm and say, rhetorically, "Have you ever walked with such a sexy man". When we sit, we sit side by side, touching arms/butts. Be confident about what you do. If you believe that you deserve it, then you deserve it.
Should you have trouble, then add push/pull, 2 step forward 1 step back, bait-hook-release, etc.