Hey what's up guys? Besides for asking straight out "would you give me head?" i don't know how else to phrase it. Whether to find out if she will blow me ever/in the future or when i'm sitting next to her in her bed. How do you guys get to "that" topic and find out questions related to getting head.

thanks for reading.

Same way I go about asking if she'll kiss me, I attempt it when the opportunity arises. Compliance means "yes".

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What do you mean? If the topic of head arises do be like "yeah, head is sweet, would you give me head?". That sounds that it would never work and i can't think of any "smooth" ways of finding this info out or simply getting to it.

Can i get an example(s) please?

Thanks.

Lol.

If a girl is in bed with you, and youre making out, just direct her to that general area. And if she isn't down for it, guide the foreplay to 69ing.

But if youre in bed just cuddling, its up to you to run the kino and turn her on buddy. Good luck.

REMEMBER: Actions speak louder than words.

Guide her physically, dont ask. Never ask. Make her want to suck youre cock. PUA's don't ask. We are the prize.

That's what I mean Slyder. I don't ask, I find out when she's gonna tell me there's a barrier, or I perceive there to be one from experience. I push her head down if she's kissing my stomach or something, I push on her shoulders and look seductively into her eyes if I'm kissing her and want her to go down.

If she doesn't go when I push (you aren't pushing hard of course), then she's resisting and so you have to build up more attraction/comfort/seduction in order to get her interested/comfortable going down. If she says she doesn't do that, then same thing, or maybe that's just not something she will do, just like some girls just won't do anal or other things, it may be a solid boundry and the only way you're gonna find out is by running into it a few times.

Experience is the only way you're gonna learn how far a girl will go, but even with experience, you continue to push until you hit resistance. It's the "don't eject until they kick you out of the set" way of pushing your boundries and achieving growth. Highly effective.

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he means you will be getting her turned on, guiding her to going down on you, then when she starts too, you tell her that she CANT suck your cock in a teasing way.

Ahh, this issue is a good friend of mine. This is how I handle it after bombing out a few times, it might not work for you, but it has never failed for me. I'm just not a big fan of pushing girls heads towards my dick. Maybe chivalry is still strong in me?

We're making out and shes starting to get swept up in it, this is where you start the dirty talking.. You're trying to create an SPAM here.. disconnect the kiss and using her hair pull her ear towards your mouth, say 'I love the feeling of your tounge in my mouth'. See what you're creating her is a standard for her to get used to on open communication. Later you can whisper, 'ohh, my dick is so hard' then grab her hand and place it on the bulge in your pants. If she takes it away, then dominate her ass.. pull that hair again, 'I didnt say stop, it feels good' If you've created the right SPAM this will be a turn on instead of threatening. Escalate from there using wordsnot actions. It takes a bit of practice.

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What a title!

i like both methods but to me, such an open gesture as placing her hand, idk i would think pushing a little is more respectful, i would couple the pushing with the words

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You cant be serious? You think physically pushing (and i know your not forecully pushing her head, dont get restless) her head towards your genitals is more respectful than placing her hands on your pants?

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HAHAHAA, oh man. alright alright I'll share the goods on what I actually do.
Okay, so after a good amount of foreplay, I usually end up going down on her and finger her. Now, not every person is good at this but if you are, this is what I do. After about 10 minutes of pussy eating and g-spot stimulating, I'll stop and saying something like this:

"I can tell you're enjoying yourself"
HB: "Yeah, It feels good" or whatever she says
YOU: "So what are you good at doing?"

Perfect. Most HB's are confident in there ability to give head so down she goes!

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Just to throw my two cents in here:

My friends and I actually make fun of guys we've hooked up with that try to push our head down there. I've walked out of hooking up with someone when I felt him push... it's rude, in my humble opinion.

Maybe if you've established enough comfort and you are in a LTR... pushing her head down there (either respectfully or full on s&m style) is fine. Honestly, I get the urge to slap a guy in the face if he pushes me like that, no matter how comfortable I am with him.

Placing a girl's hand on you is the way to go. She'll get excited that she's turning you on, and she'll know what to do next

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THE way to do this is while you're making out, put her hand on your crotch. She will begin to stimulate.
The point is that it's harder to get her exposed and vulnerable when you're fully clothed. So if you expose yourself first, she will feel more comfortable. So whip it out (assuming you're already isolated) and git'r'dun